Originally Posted by popeye21 (Post 23354144)

now they amend the law sth like if the parent don allow the child to meet the other parent, report to family court.

if valid reason then i believe its ok but of everytime father want to see the child and the ex wofe disallow giving bullshit reason the court may amend the visitation rights.

i used to be in that situation. care and control to the ex wife but joint custody.meaning anything abput education and health both parents must discuss. ex wife canmot make decision alone. up to the extend i email my son school to tell dem i want to be involve for ptc and all.i showed the cpurt order.

initially the ex thought she can makan me but when she saw that i go all out on this she don dare. anything we both will discuss.and ot has been many years since and we have had a peaceful discussion about our kids

Originally Posted by Frankiestine (Post 23356007)

During my time, the judge chide me off for asking for join custody, she said everyone thought join custody is easy but in reality it always ends up in dispute between both parties as most ex-spouse will generally tend to try and up each other by choosing a different option, end up more fights and disputes ending up in court to decide...so bo bian i lang lang withdraw hoping this is the best outcome for my daughter...moreover i know her mom will always decide what is best for her..i know myself best i don't think i will make a good father..