Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read
 

I really don't understand why so many people had sad stories when being in relation with FLs. I had few relations with foreign FLs before. Few ended and one is still ongoing. However, none ended up with money lost or feelings cheated. I even had two that likes to treat me to meals, taxi rides and gifts.

Few truths about FLs that you must know :rolleyes:
1) They are not poor at all. They are most probably much richer than you. They earn more than SGD10k per month as an FL in Singapore.
2) FLs are mostly highly independent and financially strong women. You no need to worry about them.
3) Yes, you can have relationship with them but please don't be so stupid. In this world, if you are stupid, not only FLs want to eat your money. Bankers, insurance agents, your boss, your relatives, etc all queuing up to eat your money.

Few guidelines to follow when in relation with all women :cool:
1) Always love your family and money more than women
2) Never pay for their shopping. If you do so, you are branding yourself as an ATM.
3) Their family problem is never your problem

Feel free to pm me if you are in relation with FL and you want some unbiased opinions.

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Saw your thread and reminded myself of the time I fell in love a FL.

They will treat you as their ATM, buy branded goods for her and family member.

Father got cheated of money, you have to help pay his debts.

Now I am broke and she is gone.

Bros, take heed of TS advice.

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yunnamhaircare, Is it true that before one want to fall in love with FLs, (beside money) one must have a fabulous hair with herbal treatment? :D:p

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Good one bro, i cud not stop laffing. Only dumb fucks even tink of falling in love with someone who sleeps and spread their legs for money. I heard YunanHairCare expand their biz to pubic hair treatment as well lol lol lol

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Interested parties, can pm him for discount too :p

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forgive me for having doubts but i think it is highly if not close to impossible to have a real rs with a fl.

unless u r very rich, which if u r, there will plenty of OL is ahenton queuing up. u jus have to show face in marina bay financial centre drinking places to see.

unless u v handaome, which u r, got a lot of meimeis will flock to u, free f.

unless u talk v well n kc skills superb. if u r, pls kindly share, guru... i stand corrected...

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TS actually given good advice if you look at them seriously. Comparing to the usual standard advice that fellow bros here give, this one quite new in perspective.

One thing for sure.. if a girl really likes you, she (WL or non-WL) will buy you meals, drinks and gifts; also will never ask you pay for their shopping... speaking from experience...

my 2 sperms worth

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I also don't understand why must have r/s with FL's?
1. If you're married, think why you marry your wife in the first place?
2. If you're single, is there no other pussy to love other than FL's?
3. Why do you think you want a r/s with a FL who earns her living through sex?
4. If really so serious, can you live with the fact that the pussy you're so seriously in r/s had already been visited by so many penis?

Of course it's nice to have someone to talk to, listen to, show concern, understand your situation and able to share life experiences, but must it end up in r/s?

:o

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Great thread. Everyone needs love :)

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Sad to say, you have to set rules even for your wife, even children and etc, or else things will turn bad. For example, if you don't set rules on how your children spend the family's money, they will have no concept of money-saving/investment. :cool:

Thanks for sharing your experience. :)

I am not rich and handsome so cannot comment on that. About kc-ing, I don't consciously make an effort to do it. I just be myself and follow my guidelines (stated on first post). ;)

1. Wives are mostly not the ones that men love or want to fuck most.
2. There are factors like occupations, etc that reduce the social circle so end up mixing with FLs only when seeking quick release.
3&4. This one is personal preference. Some people don't mind. I don't mind cuz I have the fetish of liking my gf to be visited by many other penis. I believe some bros here have this kind of fetish too.

Your final question is very meaningful. Yes, it might be best for people to restrict FLs to being companions only. However, this definitely needs a lot of emotional discipline because chemistry grows a lot when two are together showing concern to each other. :o

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I know some fl who retired from the scene. Some got married to live happily ever after, or so it seems. But I still receive their sms to meet up for some fun.

So if you are in a relationship with fl, better hold on tight! :p

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Just to share with the bros,

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

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Well said, best advice for the night..

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trolololol

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By this sentence alone...No, You cannot actually fall in love with FLs! Some can survive, many will die. Dun test water if you cannot swim.:D

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Short and sweet reply.

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I think the apt terms for these relationships should be ex- fb, the ex wl/fl

Always remember they are PROS- as in "PRO"STITUTE

So enjoy the fuck, feel like a man, with the GFE, the moaning like a AV Star,

pay like a man should for borrowing her body and move on.

The thing I realise after dating one of them is, it takes a certain person to be

able to bring themselves to do this kind of work, willingly in singapore, as

singaporeans, because its the land of opportunity if you work hard. But if you

take your gender as a short cut to materialistic living, then you sell your

body, soul and pride in exchange for money.

Can you accept this person as your equal even after they quit?

I have to say honestly, I am not the bigger man in this aspect. Thats why we broke up

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Bros,

To add further:

I had my fair share of having FL for a girl friend. The sex is definitely great but the question is whether you can accept her for who she is. If you cannot than better not step inside. Run away or pay for it when you need it.

If she does not work and you are paying for her rent, food, and everything, then you must have deep pockets like example ferrari owners who can pay S$5K a month for her allowance. That does not include buying things like rolex, channel, LV.

If you cannot maintain her lifestyle, then better not get involved. The price is too much to pay.

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Still is a transaction... 5k if for young syt is quite a fair deal... anything above 12k is overpriced and above market rate...

But do aware that keeping a mistress, is an exclusive transaction doesn't means you own her life, she still have the freedom to hangout with friends except to stop working as per transaction... and she also needs to know there is no love involved..

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Great post,bro. They're rarely worth the effort. Most of them use men the same way we use their pussies. Guy A for puppy love who does her bidding and menial stuff, Guy B as the ATM, Guy C wild stallion for hot sex etc Then their gambling, drinking habits will start creeping into the picture. Once you get the entire picture you'll realise its just trash you're dealing with after you filter away the sex. And even for the sex, you'll be paying for it in one way or another.

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LOL .. his "Hitman" avatar and his nick kinda contradicts kekeke

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Interesting points made tho ... bottom line is EVERYONE is different ... that's why some are long tall short thick hung loaded thick skinned and what not ... same as the woman who is your F/L-gf , current gf, wife, FB, fling, SIL what not ... what applies for you might not apply for others ... just go in with your eyes open if you want to walk on the other side ... everything's been said and its' all written on the forum countless times ... it works for some but may not work for you.

We all just have to be tolerant and agree to disagree ... Yes ?

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Point noted. Sometimes difficult not to involve love (from the guy side) when I keep on bonking her. sigh

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If a guy keep bonking a girl may end up loving her......why a fl who keep bonking a particular customer won't fall for him??

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if the person that is bonking the fl has no other options. then he will "fall in love" with the fl. If he has plenty of options, he will be able to see that this is just one of the many of the options that he has, whether it is sugarbabe, fl, fb or any other fanciful name man comes out with.

whether the fl is rich or poor is irrelevant. because the person should only be concern that he is rich, and he has no time to concern if the other person is rich or poor. and in order that he continue to be rich, he knows exactly how much to spend on the girl that is within comfortable range, and no circumstances or bullshit will change that. He will set for himself a threshold and if the fl exceed that threshold she becomes a liability to him, and he will terminate the relationship with the fl. but its easier said than done, because in the first place u are suppose to FnF with the FL, not date her.

This whole thing needs alot of self control & mental strength.

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拿得起放得下 - Must have strong Mental Fortitude as aptly described by hotstuffM8 kekeke :)

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For a guy to keep having sex with a same girl (F/L or not), it doesn't mean he loves her or will end up loving her ... He could just be loving the sex and nothing else.

For a F/L, whatever reasons she's doing what she's doing is most likely becoz she's doing it for the $$$. Cash cow don't milk then what ? :p

But 2 sides to a coin lah ... have fun trying to figure out how the mind of a F/L works ...

Like Apo said ... in the first place u are suppose to FnF(F^#K & FORGET) with the FL, not date her. IF you happen to be in the case of ShadowWarrior/Betathong/Yunnamhaircare (maybe there are enough members to form AA support group - Hi my name is XXX, I have fallen head over heels for a F/L-W/L) ... then honestly gauge what's your threshold and if it exceeds, be prepared to stop and let go. Or else don't play with fire - at all. :cool:

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Only 2 sperms ??? kekeke 2 sides to a coin and it's good to compare notes.

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It's only sex, sex and sex the main the reason we go chiong... emotional needs can be meet eslewhere like your family, school friends.. dates with colleagues..

Love from sex is not love, is call high like drugs... is a positive feeling. there are many drugs to feel high.. if u not strong enough then stay away frm rtf..

Cos the fl has options, you dont have.. you keep finding the same one and upz the mountains..

Very good piece of advice... :D

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When you start losing yours (menopause / stress / unhealthy diet / too much rough sex), you'll appreciate that there's someone out there who can give you a heads up and a hair-raising experience :eek:

It isn't sad ... it's just practical and honestly it clears up any future "disappointments". You have standards for the type of guy you want as a boyfriend/husband right ? Don't you ?