Difficulty cumming from BJ
 

Does anyone too find it difficult to cum from a blowjob?

I was 17 back in 2014, just discovered this "Japanese blowjob bar" genre where patrons rests on a sofa and have their dick sucked till completion by "waitresses"

Fascinated by it, because never had a completely blowjob only orgasm before, I decided to visit Japan, and on my itinerary, a Japanese blowjob bar

Guided by online sex-expat article, I found myself in a back-alley in Tokyo and of course, hustled by old perverts to visit their business

I went into one where the "mamasan" speaks both English and Japanese, paid 5000 yen at the front counter and proceeded to take my seat

After about 10 minutes, a lady came over with a tray of soft drink, tissue and rubbing solution, offered me the drink, helped me with the pants, got on her knees, cleaned my dick and began her duty

It was the best blowjob I've had thus far, she paid attention to the balls, cat-bath the dick all over, tongue-tickled my dick head and of course, the occasional deep-throat and short gag, all the while maintaining eye contact

It felt amazing, I felt the high, I could feel that I'm almost cumming, but not quite, it felt like you're so close, you're just a stroke away from orgasm, but it'd never reach

Finally, she looked up to me and said she's never had a customer who couldn't cum after 20 minutes, she's tired, her jaw is tired, but she wants me to cum and that she'd give it another 10 minutes

I DIDN'T CUM

I feel bad, mostly because by not cumming, I must have hurt her self esteem, she probably now thinks that her skills aren't good enough, but also because I know that something isn't right, I'm not feeling the high that I should

Not wanting to leave with blue-balls, I paid another 5000 yen and told her she can continue trying if she wants, or get someone to replace her. We were both very eager, I wanted to cum that evening, and she wanted to make me cum!

To be continued, lunch time.

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Hi bro, i also experienced the same from BJ. Even from my gf, maybe she quite new to it, as she mentioned she never did BJ before, or maybe i’m used to cum from masturbation and penetration sex.

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Just say the truth, you are holding back and enjoying her service. Nothing wrong. :D

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I don't think it's the skill, even when my girl give a good rim before she blows, even tongue the pee hole (fucking amazing sensation btw), I still find it extremely hard to cum

My ex girlfriend too, couldn't make me cum with her mouth

The only time I could is when I just woke up and dick is still extra sensitive due to morning wood

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I'm not! After 30 minutes of blowjob your dick starts to hurt anyway, thankfully I came the second round, but after 14 minutes!

There's a clock on the wall, I counted :D

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I think the difficulties of achieving orgasm thru blow job is the consistency of the pacing, the strength of grip and also the length of stroke. Of which I think consistency and length is upmost important.
As y mentioned, a few time you are reaching orgasm but failed to maybe due to her aching mouth and thus breaking the rythem and resetting the whole feel?

I myself only came once with bj. My wife dun like to give bj and that only 1 time, was when she was pregnant and she wanted to avoid pentration but is feel bad at depriving me of sex. I literally have to mouth fuck here for 15 minutes on and off to finally CIM (achievement unlocked). Before that she did tried to blow me at her pace but I simply cannot have that feel due to the above reasons.

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Is a good sign you can make a woman very happy during fucking.

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It does indeed feel like this is the root cause, lately I've been getting her to deep-throat blowjob when I'm nearing to orgasm and it seems a bit more effective

I'm curious as to how people does it in amateur home videos, it'd be so lucky if I could just watch TV and relax all the way while getting a blowjob until completion :(

Only once?!

In what other way do each satisfy each other then?

I wish I could fuck as long as it takes for me to cum (if it even happen) via blowjob lol! :D

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keep it coming bro, up you a few apples!

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She did give me a few times BJ before, but non till orgasm,only symbolic lick and suck awhile and that only time i exploded in her mouth was mouth fucking her at my own pace.

normally our foreplay was me touch touch her, kiss kiss and toys followed by penetration lor. she dun even allow me to lick and finger her!

sad life of a typical married man hahaha

True Story

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I also have difficulty of having orgasm from a blowjob.

Only one of my FBs ever blew me (purely) to completion. The rest needed to HJ me to CIM

This was a heavy set girl that told me to lay down at couch and watch football or movie and went down on me 45mins till I came in her mouth purely from bbbj.

Sadly she left our shores. No longer in contact.

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No problem for me
I am in my 60s
Hj..bj...i will cum
Easier than fj

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Here’s 12. Please do carry on with your post.

Think for me no problem; in cumming during BJ or BBBJ.

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I think for the cause for me is that i pcc too much during younger days. Also hardly remained hard when come to normal sex, until i went for juagen and the lady said i used to the motion of pcc, and through internet posts/articles also mentioned too used to porn imagination. So i stopped masturbation and porn for quite awhile, and keep having sex only with gf.
Slowly improve better and better. Now i’m good.
BJ wised i thinking maybe is the same problem, not used to the motion, somemore gf more accommodate in giving sex than bj i guess. Cant slowly train to cum with BJ, lol.

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I think sometimes the place u r can affect the mood. I do face similar issues, manage to cum twice from bbbj this year from 2 ladies only. Once recently which is surprisingly quite good as the up down motion constantly n I cum inside her mouth. Got a slap n scolding from her after that. 😂