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Originally Posted by Summerhillt
I married young and I think my marriage is seriously failing. I’ve been caught before cheating before married but still we went to marry. That’s cause I really loved her. Then now marry Liao at first I Sibeh love and told myself not to cheat. Chiong commercial can Liao. But knn, now I know a siambu from siamdiu, I chiong siamdiu at least 10-12 years Liao. I know which siambu can or cannot.. I told myself before never kena kc trap. Wa cb, now I Kena gfe and kc trap by this siambu like, she will let me talk to her brother when she’s back in Bkk. She dares to video call me anytime.. she even shows me her pet.. omg we are like seriously dating. And this is the feeling I fucking yearn for. Whereas my wife just wants me to Paynow her…
Yes and I’ve got caught recently and now she legits wants a divorce haiz. I am at wits end. I still love her and can’t bear to see her sobbing eyes
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that's the way the cookie crumbles bro.
do you have kids? if yes, that might become a reason to rough it out and stay together.
If not, just go where your heart leads.
When men/women cheat, sure we will have remorse, or guilt but I think the lust, love whatever you call it, attraction is stronger than the former.
So it probably doesn't matter what we say, you will follow your heart.
Its the same as over the many years we say to bros, don't get KC, don't fall in love with a whore, don't leave your wife for a whore, or just treat it as commercial sex, but the bro, still falls in love, and then complains he is in lots of heartache because of the job she does. He then tries to handle it by pulling back, but he realises he has fallen too deep within the abyss.
In the infatuation stage, we all feel like this was a dream unfulfilled. It will pass like all things, we all get older, more matured, and the salt rinsed through the waters of time, no longer stays salty.
Its just part of the journey, do what you feel is right for you.
On that note, when women cheat, its the same as well, they would follow their hearts, and its a heartless one.