[QUOTE=pokeslow]Many thanks to all bros who had reply to my thread or even read them. I have to say, that mostly all bros agrees that those who never realised what they are in for, are going to learn the hard way. That's my main reason to put this thread in the first place, so that bros who are facing or going through this phase in their lifes should note these words of advises from the bros here and snapped out of it. Alas, I pressume that some other bros might say that to itch is own and if one is happy (though like some bros as said la..a sad fuck case) with his lifestyle, let it be then.
What irritate me most, my personal views and encounter ya, with these kind of people is that they will keep on rambling abt this so call GF of theirs just after 1 bonk and how painful is it to them to be away or out of sight from their GF. They will ask your advises this and that, how to handle the situations, but in the end, they will still be doing it their way..the sad fuck way la. They never wake up nor even realised what they are doing, even to the state of losing some buddies along the way.
I believe this category of guys are mostly new cheongsters who dont have much chance to enjoy such intimate encounters with an opp sex and added the human emotional touch and gf treatment from WL, it's almost fairy tale made true. A beautiful, sexy, gentle and caring ladies serving you the way you pleases which could hardly come by in real world. Any man would enjoy and missed such a sweet dream, as it is just a dream, it's fine if one could wake up to face the real world and escape to his sweet dream as much as he could afford. Of course, there are some guys who fallen into a never awaken dream and continue living within his own dream, these are the guys that will live miserable after awaken.
Is there any words of wisdoms or some other ways to make them realised? Of course, the magic phrase which Bro Deli has mentioned "u call chicken not chicken call u" has been used but still not much effect la.
Do provide other alternatives or suggestions if you do have that has proven to be effective ya. I dont want to see these bros, to be losing some nice frens who really care abt them or the worse case scenarios is that they lost in la-la land and really down and out.
When you are in position to advise, are the receiving party in position to listen? Dont give generalise comment, be specific to each points related to their specific problem. If the WL is conning, there will be trace of foot step all over, you will just need to knock some sense into his brain if its still functioning.
Sometimes, you will just got to stand aside to let him feel the pain from the fall to awaken him, of course as a friend you could always try to cushion his fall or probably a listening ears is all he need. This is part and parcel of cheonging puying, without it the fun is gone.
Once again, thanks to all bros for your inputs and shared advises.
Sanuk sabai.
