[KevinJacob]

Bro, just to share my part.

I've been with my gf for 2 years this coming April. Initially sex was frequent in the early stage but gradually we tone down. I have to say from the start if i were to judge her sex drive, i would be unclear as well. Cause at times she wants it badly but at times its just me as a 1 sided willing party. As days/months goes by, sex gradually became a 2-3 day routine, to 1 week and now less than 3 times during each of her period cycle.

I do admit to the part that it was really kinda fucked up that i wasn't getting regular sex as before. Every time when we decided to call it an early night, and when i take the initiative ( as always ), she would always reject claiming she was tired. I was so frustrated i told her this,

" Every time ask you for sex you reject. You want go out, i follow you. You want walk around, go shopping i also follow you whole day. 5-8 hours of walking and i never even utter a single word tired. Now come back home i ask you for sex for approximately 10-20mins you say you tired? ".

I also remembered saying something really nasty, which till date i would not forget how much of a cunt i am. Upon her rejection, i was pissed off, walking out of the door, telling her i could fuck some girls in my contact list easily, and they would give me anytime i wanted.

I know many of you would say i'm a fucker for saying this, but i was only 19 years of age at tat moment. And as i'm getting older as nature catches up with me, i believe i can handle every situation more maturely.

My gf and i are 20 years old this year, and she stays my house almost everyday. Once in a while we would go back to her mums place for a day or two. This means i can hardly eat out etc, and sex is becoming a secondary thing in my life. I believe if you really love your gf/wife, have the strong will power,and if you have a strong faith, regardless which god you believe in, you will understand your loved ones.

Of course i'm not asking you to cheat your gf to have sex, but many of us here seek that as the only answer hehe.

I believe no one is perfect in this world. Just give and take. Sorry if im long winded as i may sound, but just my 2 cents worth.