[hardcoremayhem]

TS, from the way i see it, it looks like you are having some doubts and are apprehensive about introducing another guy to your bed.

if that is the case, maybe you and your wife should discuss this very very carefully first? The last thing you want is to have your marriage wrecked with jealousy and unhappiness from this.

watching and getting turned on by a MMF or even MFF 3sum is 1 thing, doing and living with it is another thing entirely...