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Originally Posted by dman19
Yeah she totally not interested these days, literally she ask me to use my hands when I try to initiate any intimacy... well that's why I'm this thread. Eventually I found a fwb and had the best sex in my life. Not sure how long it will last, but every meetup is banging good and I'm sure she have some feelings for me so sometimes need constantly remind each other that our relationship cannot go beyond fwb status otherwise must call it off
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Full disclaimer: I am not a lawyer.
If I were you I'd be secretly recording down a couple of times you have this convo with your wife and she tells you to go and use your hands. If you can trigger an actual argument with her where she candidly tells you in a fit of anger or whatever that she no longer has any interest in making your marriage with her a sexually fulfilling or even active one, even better for you.
Then keep the recordings and go have your FWB extramarital sex life. They will be useful in future to protect yourself with in best case scenario of you initiating divorce citing irretrievable breakdown of marriage due to breakdown in intimacy, or in worst case scenario if she finds out about you fucking someone outside and wants a divorce with you, those recordings can come in handy when played to the judge in court to demonstrate that the marriage breakdown isn't 100% down to you committing adultery outside.
My personal view though? Mai tu liao, divorce is better than being stuck in a sexless loveless marriage.