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Originally Posted by SadLoser
QFT.
Just sharing my humble opinions on this- there's absolutely nothing wrong for a guy to be paying for sex or companionship in any form. Cos it's damm hell difficult for an average joe to get any actions from normal gals these days.
In this era of social media & dating apps, any average gal will get lots & lots of validation online and endless messages/prepositions from guys all the times. They simply have to sit back, eat popcorns and pick the best dude from the lot - whether is it for dating or for a casual fling.
Being a gal in today's society is literally life on easy mode. Being a pretty gal literally is like the world is handed to u on a sliver platter. Spoilt for choice, receive endless validations & support from simps etc
For a guy - u really gotta stand out in terms of looks/height/wealth to be even given a chance.
So of course many more guys go for commercial sex as compared to gals who can find companionship much much easier
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these days looks or wealth might not even help to land you a chiobu gf liao.
the thing abt modern generation girls is technically they dont really need a guy around. girls are actually happier hanging out with fellow charbo on girls night out, shopping, eating and gossiping to their heart content. financially they are already independent, unlike the older generation lao charbo that feel 'very proud' getting married with wealthy guys and shake legs be housewives.
these days girls earn alot and also spend alot on themselves, of cos can maintain their looks much better than the lao charbo.
only time they thought of finding a bf or companion to be specific is when they feel really bored and need an opposite sex to entertain them. simps are useful in that aspect. giving lots of attention mah, which girls wont enjoy them? just try stop giving them attention for 3 days and the chiobu disappears, lol. but then again, these simps could also be wasting their time and effort and ultimately get friendzoned when the chiobu hooked up their dream ang mo hunk for a romantic sexcapade.
so need not feel down or jealous of couples out there, in a modern society, things are moving like fast food, the fantasy of getting together and live happily ever after is outdated. ppl are only looking to fulfil their own desires. the couples you see outside might not be everlasting or real love as well. so chill man.
