Thread: Divorceed fall in to share your sob story
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Old 20-10-2020, 01:40 PM
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Re: Divorceed fall in to share your sob story
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Originally Posted by EtherC View Post
Do not confuse love with indulging a loved one’s flaws/ bad decisions. If say you have a wife who earns 2500 but wants to drive a car, indulging that would mean saying yes to an overleveraged lifestyle. Instead of helping her buy a car, help her obtain the means of buying a car. It could be a switch of occupation or enforced savings by sacrificing other luxuries. Many times we blame the other party for a decisions we ourselves supported unwittingly. Always reflect on ourselves first, that will help to improve our choices in the future.
Do you know what is the main diff between men and women? More women lack agency than Men.