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Originally Posted by Omax
To TS, did your wife find out about your once off or prolonged relationship/s or both.
Women react differently to once off than to relationships.
however as I see it, she is still in it with you but need time to balance herself.
Sometimes I wonder if women knows their partner will inevitably have extras outside, but is content as long as they don't find out and the family is not neglected or compromised.
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Thank you for your reply too.. yes, i feel she's still in our relationship, but she's cooled off much, not put so much effort into maintaining the relation, we still go out as a family n do family things together, not like going to implode n divorce soon, just that things not so fun as before..
To those who talk about counselling, yeah we went to imh see counselling, n the counsellor spoke to us individually n as a group, we put into practice the suggestion n its a work in progress.. one thing the counsellor said n which i rem is, don't give up, do things like we used to when its fun n the healing will start with time..
So if is in our biological makeup or whatever reason, each of us hv our reason to do what we did, n we reap ehat we sowed, so whether good or bad after effects, its a experience to not forget.. that's life..