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It’s during breakups that many people show their true colors. Never expect a clean fight. If poorly prepared, as a man Im sorry to say that most likely we are the ones to pay for it financially whether or not you are at fault.

The forties is a hurdle for many couples, this is another time when Nature fucks with us. Our libido dips compared to women who experience their greatest horniness. If not prepared well to handle it , some marriages may experience a rapid deterioration. Needs have to be met whether we like it or not, if not it’ll not be labelled a need.

If the marriage is not well lubricated with kindness & romance from both parties its easy for the attrition to wreak havoc. Successful marriages take a lot of work, if one partner is unwillingly its tough for the other to carry the relationship alone.