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Old 18-02-2022, 02:25 AM
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Re: Trying to get over an ML

Its a good long read though i like how you lay down thewhole facts in a interesting neutral way. The many of local guy who cannot get any sex from local girls and now foreign girls also not here. We are forced to live without sex, and the dating scene forever challenging. Like you mentioned having a decent pay 3000 to 5000 also is not helping to get sex these days. Where to get sex, theres no place to get sex like before. All the prices are inflated. If foreign worker can get sex from maids and normal beta foreign worker who get no sex can control themselves, local guys can do it too to go without sex and still able to control without resorting to crime.


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Originally Posted by Willamshakspear View Post
Humans do have sexual & companion needs. It is within our genes, & no matter how hard one tries, the urge for gratification will always be there. It's only normal.

What is NOT normal if we force such needs upon others whom are not willing to shar
e such needs, or force ourselves UNNATURALLY to resolve such gratifications, eg - beyond financial means, beyond focus at work or family,
Singapore is a capitalist Democracy, but with a touch of socialism that explains for mandatory CPF contributions from employers & HDB homes for everyone, unlike other capitalist nations that left citizens in slums such as India, Philippines, etc
It cannot be such that ONLY the rich are allowed to gratify their sexual needs. The average income in Spore is between $3000 to $5000. Wha about the many whom are below that average, & foreign workpass holders? Are they to become monks?

Sexual needs may be a taboo subject for strait laced leaders, but nevertheless it had not been overlooked, in the face of dangers to womanhood-wives, daughters,- who may either have to cover up themselves & go to seed without a care to their health, growing obese & not taking care about their once appealing looks, to protect themselves.

Thus Geylang was born, offering a cheaper & socially healthy alternative to release the excessive hormones in males, rather than let those hormones corrupt the mind & render the male useless & unproductive in contribution to society.

Unfortunately due to COVid 19 fears based not on science, Geylang was shut down. Opportunistic nightlife operators, especially the bosses, seized upon this chance of low supply but high natural demand & as a result, many average & below average Sporean males are being fleeced & scammed by them, in many ways both illegal & legal.

This is a dangerous situation for society & unhealthy. Already molestation cases are on the rise - where males with good prospects in life have to resort to societal criminal means to satisfy their urges, & losing hope for a brighter future.

Education plays a part to ease such urges, but it will need a genetic change within the male body to alter such genes, & it is not within our knowledge to do so yet. This forum can only do so much to help & advise. Opening up geylang & allowing MORE vaccinated foreign ladies who wish to be in this trade on their own free will be a step in the right direction to protect our society.

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