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Originally Posted by EtherC
Do not confuse love with indulging a loved one’s flaws/ bad decisions. If say you have a wife who earns 2500 but wants to drive a car, indulging that would mean saying yes to an overleveraged lifestyle. Instead of helping her buy a car, help her obtain the means of buying a car. It could be a switch of occupation or enforced savings by sacrificing other luxuries. Many times we blame the other party for a decisions we ourselves supported unwittingly. Always reflect on ourselves first, that will help to improve our choices in the future.
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Bottomline is, marry an intelligent wife who can avoid these issues. But then too intelligent, might not want to marry you, or start to wear the pants in the home. When there are two captains on the ship, sure to have conflict.