[lovemachine]

SBF kinda document an aspect of my life. So apart from replying to your thread, I am also penning this as a "journal".

Im not handsome or rich. But I have first hand and seen first hand info what girls might like.

For me back in my teenage years, I was in a top JC and dating a very pretty girl and known openly for being attached.

I was pretty ok in school and super active in sports (track and field team, soccer team and a few other sports).

I have gotten "secret letter" addressed to me and 3 girls back then openly told me they liked me even though I had a gf then. One of them even asked me to go her house for "adult games".

I think girls are hardwired to like guys who are active and full of life? Im certain they like rich and handsome guys too but every girl is different.

Another one (hot Indon Chinese) asked to meet me behind the school hall and we chatted and hugged a bit. But I was 17 then, so no sex in school. This became one of my biggest regret.

My own conclusion: I think at least for that age, being good academically + being sporty help a lot before the women start looking at your career and networth. Women are hardwired to seek out healthy strong men?

When I was in Uni, I was very chatting, humourous and doing my sideline biz outside to supplement my income. This was well known to my peers.

So met a PRC classmate who was doing a module with me and we exchanged contact and kept in touch via MSN messenger.

I didnt think of boning her and we jus hit it off well. So we met up for lunches and chats fairly frequently. One late night while we were chatting, somehow we talked about sex and I told her about my taste in "rough sex" from watching jap porn, she was intrigued to know more and asked me to show her the porn.

So I told her i can pop by her dorm to watch together which she agreed. So the next day when I was free, I sneaked up to her dorm and watched porn together. Barely 5 mins into the porn, I just pounced on her and feast on her.

She like my rough handling and we kept at it for a pretty long time. The most exciting part was sneaking up to her dorm while most of my gf's friends was staying there.

I was a fucked up bf and she enjoyed every moment of it cheating with me behind my gf's back. Going out shopping nearby the uni was a very jittery moment for me then.

My own conclusion: She is a PRC and is prob lonely in SG. I think i am fun loving and engaging (compared to all the engineering nerds in my cohort). So I guess I happened to meet her at the right place and right time.

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In my Uni days, becos i started my business on the side, there is a SG girl who quite like me. We are a group of friends who went clubbing together and she likes the idea and I am very motivated and fun loving (I really enjoy clubbing and having fun and we do not go clubbing then to look for ons). She was a virgin and in the club I often teased her that I am a virgin too (i was just trying to be funny) and without meaning it, I would tease her and say we should exchange our virginity from time to time.

One day, she called me and told me her computer was spoilt and asked me to go to her house (Im pretty IT savvy). I was quite reluctant to go initially (shes not so pretty) and then she told me her parents weren't at home.

I got the hint immediately and just went over. As soon as I reached her place and once I ascertained that there was nobody else but her, I just carried her up and threw her on her bed and just started to take off her clothes in a pretty rough manner. Her groans suggest that she likes it and I screwed her pretty hard in her room. I still remb she has a portrait of Mother Mary on her wall. While I was screwing her, I asked for forgiveness (im not joking) in my heart.

My conclusion: I tried small businesses at a fairly young age and maybe it seems cool to her. Again i think im fun loving and she likes my personality. And no i didnt spend on her (as in buying gifts specially for her). But if we meet up, I will buy her meals and all. But I do this for all my friends.

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Overlapping with the above was a hook up with a SG ah lian. She is a regular clubber in Devils Bar (now closed le), I was learning dancing then and would dance kinda non stop. For her, she "hit" on me by throwing ice cubes at me initially. Actually it kinda hurt but she was just giggling away. She is pretty and tall and I still remb her body art. We started drinking together regularly (dance together whenever we bumped into each other). I didnt even take her number.

One day after drinking, she was bored and asked me out for supper, I said yes and we went to a nearby supper place and went to my office for a chat. In my office, I offered to give her a massage and started with her calves, working my way up her thighs, she was moaning and before long I started massaging her pussy. We then proceeded to have sex in my office. This was a wild girl who later become my gf for 3 years and we used all kinda sex toys and had sex almost daily and everywhere. From hdb stairs, playgrounds, shopping center toilets, parks and even beside the book shelf in the public library! I think to her, she prob found me fun loving as well.

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Devils Bar

In the same club while clubbing with friends, was chatting with this nice Malaysian girl who was really eloquent. I had a good conversation with her and that same night she asked me to take a walk outside the club which I did. Then we held hands and her boyfriend called. While holding my hand she was telling her bf she was with her female bff. I teased her and asked her what she "took me for". She was sheepish and just laughed.

She is a hr professional and worked just 5 mins from my office in Tanjong Pagar. After that night, we would meet for lunch regularly in town and after work she will come to my office and work with me till late.

So knowing she's pretty ok with me, one of the nights i just grabbed her and pinned her in my office and proceeded to strip her. While she was at gun point (at my junior's mercy), she told me after she gives me sex, it means we have a bf-gf rs. I know you find this hard to believe, but I got my junior to stand down and I just masturbated her instead. Wasnt ready for commitment then and she was a really nice girl.

I think she had RS issues and she found me to be a fun loving and humour guy. Oh back then due to all the clubbing and crazy dancing, I had a flat tummy then. She always like to touch my flat tummy and squeeze my perky ass (or so she said)

My conclusion: She was prob feeling lost and looking for romance. And we happened to meet and she prob found me fun loving and entreprising.

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These are the more memorable experiences I had and I had done lotsa crazy stuff.

the human dynamics for knowing someone in different settings are different. So example, I was one hell of a great wing man for my 2 buddies in clubs. I was always able to go right up to a group of girls (or even guys and girls), talk to them (guys as well) and get different groups in a club to party together. I think not many ppl do that (i do that when im sober) and people probably find me confident.

At the same time, I got all my ex gfs from getting their numbers on the street. But I wnt say I do this deliberating to hit on girls to bed them.

I can the kinda person who can chat with anyone (guys and girls) in any social setting and I think it has become second nature. Most of the girls I do not end up doing anything funny, I just chat with them, maybe go out for meals and do periodical texting and usually most of them are already attached.

A few of them if i am at the right place at the right time, then sex happens.

I think being confident in talking to strangers (not just girls) help a lot. Having engaging conversations help.

I do realise the guai guai girls (SG) tend to be wilder than the ah lians or hardcore party girls in bed. They are into role playing and unusually sex compared to the party girls.

And it has been (for me) much easier to get numbers from guai guai girls then those girls who dress very hot and sexy.

I think being rich and handsome do matter (im neither). but if you were a girl and if you are dating a boring rich and/or handsome man, I think you will be bored in no time.

but if you were dating me (full of life, humour and crap), I think some girls will prefer my kinda profile.

Bottomline for me, I think I am generally a fun loving guy to be around with and this helped me bed some girls. But the thing is, I didnt try to be fun loving to bed girls. This is my nature and I realised that the sex happens when I least expect it.

So I guess its a number's game if you wanna bed girls? But I suspect if u do things naturally and be fun and caring, things will just happen naturally.