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Re: Sex Addiction? Vicious Cycle?

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Originally Posted by piichai View Post
Once you are free, you will check which SPA to go and which ML to find.
Often spending $100 per trip and 3 times per week. It becomes an habit and you easily spend $1500 per month.

Then out of a sudden, you met a gal (Not ML, WL or those commercial gals) somewhere in the workplace, social events or party.
You started to date and when not dating, you read, exercise and do something more constructive. You dont even think of sex but both of you spend time together enjoying
Going to Spa is once a while to get over the sexual needs which is not available at this stage with her. Sex is not even on your mind.

Suddenly you realized that you have been spending foolishly and wasting quite a lot of money in the past for the temporary release. So you stopped immediately and completely.
(That explained why some brothers disappear for a while) Then after a while when relationship fails, you are back to commercialism and into SBF forums. (That explains why some return)
The vicious cycle continue.

Anyone been through this?
Feel free to share.
I think many here have a wrong understanding on sex after you have a gf. Whatever amount you used to pay per shot for commercial sex (say $100), you continue to pay even after you are attached. So each round with your gf, you save $100 into your piggy bank. 1 night 3 rounds, go save $300 into the piggy bank because you would have paid the FL $300 (if the cost is $100 per shot lah).

Soon, you will realise you are saving a lot of money and therefore it gives you more reason to appreciate and love your gf. Maybe the money you save can afford a simple wedding over time. Should be able to buy diamond ring at least.

Then after marriage, continue the habit. Save some money after each round of sex. If she stop having sex with you or if she grew so fat that you see already cannot stand, then you will need money for commercial sex right? The piggy bank comes in handy then right?
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