Married man did have sex for one year

[kenzone]

Originally Posted by Curious0932

hi all, have anyone encounter this situation ? my partner and I are in my 30s. got children. we did bath together sometimes, but she dont allow any sex. So i masturbate in front of her lor.

I got a high sex drive, everyday i masturbated to release my sperms. I dont know why she lost interest in sex or intimacy.

She is not cheating for sure as she always stay at home.

i was wondering how she satisfy her cravings. I bought a dildo, but she did not use it, saying not nice to play. I'm also so confused.

I did bought some male masturbater but feeling not nice.

can some lady expert here tell me what is happening to her ?

Many women need to be comfortable and close emotionally with a man before she can have sex with him. Try to build your communication with her and be attentive to her non-sexual needs. Also, try to time your sexual advances based on her ovulation cycle. Usually 5-6 days after her period ends, which is just before ovulation, is when women are most horny and testosterone is at its peak. Once ovulation occurs, her sex drive will drop too. So your best chance is around ovulation time.

[ALSS74]

Originally Posted by Curious0932

hi all, have anyone encounter this situation ? my partner and I are in my 30s. got children. we did bath together sometimes, but she dont allow any sex. So i masturbate in front of her lor.

I got a high sex drive, everyday i masturbated to release my sperms. I dont know why she lost interest in sex or intimacy.

She is not cheating for sure as she always stay at home.

i was wondering how she satisfy her cravings. I bought a dildo, but she did not use it, saying not nice to play. I'm also so confused.

I did bought some male masturbater but feeling not nice.

can some lady expert here tell me what is happening to her ?

Feel for you bro.

[HiFive]

You're not alone bro. After giving birth, it is mostly like that. Either hormones change or tired due to housework.

Try to help out and let her have a day off to rest. Kiss and hug her often. Dont HJ in front of her when she totally has no mood for you. HJ with porn is better la..or ask MJ to HJ you.

[fastshot]

Originally Posted by sbwow

Yes, TS need to do more housework, take care kids, take care of In-Laws also otherwise she no mood then you don't have sex.

Sign-On as Free Slave. HAHAHA.

If want to play No mood, anyone can do it with any teeny weeny little bit of issue. HAHAHA.

you are not alone bro. and the bro i quoted is right. do you do your share of the housework, taking care of kids, check their homework etc.? if you also doing your share, plus dote in other ways, think she will be less exhausted to sex

[rogertks]

Originally Posted by HiFive

You're not alone bro. After giving birth, it is mostly like that. Either hormones change or tired due to housework.

Try to help out and let her have a day off to rest. Kiss and hug her often. Dont HJ in front of her when she totally has no mood for you. HJ with porn is better la..or ask MJ to HJ you.

Hahaha thanks for the good laugh!

[blu3fin]

Originally Posted by fastshot

you are not alone bro. and the bro i quoted is right. do you do your share of the housework, taking care of kids, check their homework etc.? if you also doing your share, plus dote in other ways, think she will be less exhausted to sex

Suspect It could also be due to pussy injury at childbirth that didn't heal right. 🤔...

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by blu3fin

Suspect It could also be due to pussy injury at childbirth that didn't heal right. 🤔...

WOO UPZ 👍 👍 👍

[skihon]

Mine slightly different than yours. Mine after married she has no sex drive. After 1 year of me asking for sex. I give up and sticks to masturbating. Talked to her a few times but no reply for her, so i been masturbating for about 4years tru out my marriage.

[airman]

Originally Posted by skihon

Mine slightly different than yours. Mine after married she has no sex drive. After 1 year of me asking for sex. I give up and sticks to masturbating. Talked to her a few times but no reply for her, so i been masturbating for about 4years tru out my marriage.

That begs the question; why got married in the 1st place?

perhaps her testosterone level is low?

imagine living with her for the rest of your life without sex.

[shitty_shit1982]

Agree. Did bro do your fair share of housework? Do share her workload and make her fall in love again. Romantic outings and dinners will help

[Lemonjuice]

This is a wife's core duty. If she refused, tell her you will outsource. The ball's her court.

[lilmei]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

This is a wife's core duty. If she refused, tell her you will outsource. The ball's her court.

Like that say oso not wrong but this kind of make-or-break conversation is v difficult especially when kids are involved.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

This is a wife's core duty. If she refused, tell her you will outsource. The ball's her court.

Correct, outsource to the In-Laws to come and clean the house for their children and grandchildren. HAHAHA.

[junmin95]

a few points to think about:

1. Sex time, is it usually you ask her go on top or you missionary? maybe she don't like the position.
   
2. are you / her overweight ? fat people less sex drive.
   
3. do you pew too fast / easily soft? pcc is one thing but when come to sex easily soft and pew too fast will make the wife give up on sex with the husband
   
4. do you engage foreplay? enough foreplay then can turn her on.

finally, you can bring her go couple trip to Japan. ask people help take care your kids for that period. Now Japan a lot of those APA hotels got adult videos free one in the tv. So just book one of those hotel, then buy the female aphrodisiac from sex shops. Ask her drink then watch a bit of JAV sure will have something even if she is low sex drive.

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by junmin95

a few points to think about:

1. Sex time, is it usually you ask her go on top or you missionary? maybe she don't like the position.
   
2. are you / her overweight ? fat people less sex drive.
   
3. do you pew too fast / easily soft? pcc is one thing but when come to sex easily soft and pew too fast will make the wife give up on sex with the husband
   
4. do you engage foreplay? enough foreplay then can turn her on.

Good advice