Is oral sex important for you as foreplay?

machoman · #1 09-12-2008, 02:15 PM

The question might sound like a pretty straightforward one to answer but from my personal experiences, it can cause a lot of friction in a relationship between a couple.

I like to quote from my close friend, Mr C who was divorced not too long ago; he said: " If my ex-wife would just give me a BJ, I would drop everything & return home immediately, even if I was outside drinking at a pub or whatever!"

He felt very strongly that oral sex is essential as a prelude to sexual intercourse. Among other factors which caused his marriage to fail, he felt that an unsatisfactory sex life was a major factor in the breakup.

He was of the view that if only the wives would accommodate the husbands' request for fellatio, the divorce rate would not be so high & the demand for paid sex would taper off.

Is his assumption too simplistic? What's your take?

I would love to hear your views, especially from the lady members.

Style-M · #2 09-12-2008, 02:17 PM

its is important... fun for both side too...
is it veri dirty? some gals tells me that... when i wan to lick them there

Frankiestine · #3 09-12-2008, 02:24 PM

yes without a doubt...like your friend my marriage is also suffering because of my oc differing view on sex to mine...

machoman · #4 09-12-2008, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Frankiestine

yes without a doubt...like your friend my marriage is also suffering because of my oc differing view on sex to mine...

My friend's ex-wife refuses to BJ him but he feels that oral sex is an essential part of foreplay & arouses him so that the intercourse & of course, the ejaculation will be more enjoyable & intense.

So, do you agree with him?

kingcopa · #5 09-12-2008, 02:29 PM

Yes without a doubt. But too bad OC dun seem to share the same view w me on this

naemlo · #6 09-12-2008, 02:33 PM

Without a BJ, sex is boring....

machoman · #7 09-12-2008, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by kingcopa

Yes without a doubt. But too bad OC dun seem to share the same view w me on this

I wonder why?

Do females consider oral sex as dirty as in unhygienic? Is their mindset on sex so different from men?

Ladies, I would love to hear your views on oral sex.

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Without a BJ, sex is boring....

Totally agree with you on this but it seems that some ladies are reluctant to participate in oral sex.

Frankiestine · #8 09-12-2008, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by machoman

My friend's ex-wife refuses to BJ him but he feels that oral sex is an essential part of foreplay & arouses him so that the intercourse & of course, the ejaculation will be more enjoyable & intense.

So, do you agree with him?

yup...i never liked jumping into bed and going straight to the act of fucking. sex to me is the culmination of a courting session that includes, petting, kissing, oral sex and finally insertion.

machoman · #9 09-12-2008, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Frankiestine

yup...i never liked jumping into bed and going straight to the act of fucking. sex to me is the culmination of a courting session that includes, petting, kissing, oral sex and finally insertion.

Well said.

So it really puzzles me why some ladies seem to think that oral sex is some kind of perversion.

naemlo · #10 09-12-2008, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by machoman

Totally agree with you on this but it seems that some ladies are reluctant to participate in oral sex.

Some gers, no BJ, even dun allow lick pussy.... sian all the way.

Frankiestine · #11 09-12-2008, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Some gers, no BJ, even dun allow lick pussy.... sian all the way.

no bj no lick like that sian....kena my oc lagi worse...cannot finger also and only depending on her mood...some times allow to suck on nipple...this one lagi sian...like that day tell me she no more urge for sex...knn limpeh toolan infront of her masturbate...she buay song...short of telling her she has failed miserably first as a wife and second as a woman...

machoman · #12 09-12-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Some gers, no BJ, even dun allow lick pussy.... sian all the way.

Have you ever asked them why not?

Dirty or what?

From the sex books that I have read, do you know that our hands, being exposed to bacteria all the time from handling too many things, are even dirtier than the private parts, especially if it's properly washed.

ANDYSIAO14 · #13 09-12-2008, 02:52 PM

i think those girls whatever trade they are in got their orgasm from the shares tumbling down

(salute those Lehman investors)

n0 lick n0 bj then might as well as well i DIY myself and save those $$$

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Some gers, no BJ, even dun allow lick pussy.... sian all the way.

Acanthus · #14 09-12-2008, 02:53 PM

Getting a BJ to me is way more shiok then intercourse itself, that's y i usually go for FL that does BJ in car.

My wife used to shun oral sex last time.

recently, due to some reason i dun know, she has start accepting giving head. Thou i dun get it everytime, and due to her inexperience its painful at times...im pleased that she's willing to do it. Recently she even allowed me to COF

Now that she's doing that, im in semi-retirement mode liao...its been 2 months since i last bonk a FL.

machoman · #15 09-12-2008, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Acanthus

Getting a BJ to me is way more shiok then intercourse itself, that's y i usually go for FL that does BJ in car.

My wife used to shun oral sex last time.

recently, due to some reason i dun know, she has start accepting giving head. Thou i dun get it everytime, and due to her inexperience its painful at times...im pleased that she's willing to do it. Recently she even allowed me to COF

Now that she's doing that, im in semi-retirement mode liao...its been 2 months since i last bonk a FL.

So, my friend is right- if more wives give head, the WL's biz will drop.