from fun to love to acquaintance

[coypredator]

Met this married lady for 1.5 years.

Started out as friends and met once in a while for coffee and drinks.
She shared her hubby cheating on her. She got 2 kids cant leave him and working for him in his business.

She wanted to just date people.

I tried courting her initially. She will always meet me, text asap but nvr wanted to get intimate. And said we are soulmate.

One day, she said she is ok to be lover. So we did for 2 months. Loads of intimate texts and calls but no sex.

Then one day we argued and she called it quits and now she is very distant to me. She still has issues with her hubby she says. She replies fast but feels different. And she started to be active on her social media again, posting her pics.

I care and like her. But I feel I can't get her.

Should I fight on, give up or be friends?

[barrysteakfries]

Originally Posted by coypredator

Met this married lady for 1.5 years.

Started out as friends and met once in a while for coffee and drinks.
She shared her hubby cheating on her. She got 2 kids cant leave him and working for him in his business.

She wanted to just date people.

I tried courting her initially. She will always meet me, text asap but nvr wanted to get intimate. And said we are soulmate.

One day, she said she is ok to be lover. So we did for 2 months. Loads of intimate texts and calls but no sex.

Then one day we argued and she called it quits and now she is very distant to me. She still has issues with her hubby she says. She replies fast but feels different. And she started to be active on her social media again, posting her pics.

I care and like her. But I feel I can't get her.

Should I fight on, give up or be friends?

What are you looking for? If you are aiming for her pussy, I will say fight on. If you are looking for love, I'll say give up. She is working for her husband. So she is financially dependent on him, plus the two kids, I would say divorce is unlikely. Even if she does, it will still be messy because of the two kids.

[coypredator]

Yes she wont divorce.

Not love bah. For pussy only. I did make the mistake that I thought i was fighting for love. And got my emotions involved and put myself in a vulnerable state.

Tbh, I'm also quite tired of chasing and keep having to 2nd guess what she wants. I asked her before but it always changes. But I don't want to give up cos I feel i invested time and feelings + I felt something was ongoing for awhile.

Is it wise to step back and say that I wanna be friends?

[lovethaibabes]

Just sharing my opinions which are based on past experiences in my own life.

Give up chasing. PCC it out when the urge arises. Block her on SM.

Don't let another person mess with your mind just because you want her pussy.

Chase Life instead. Become a better person. Chase self-improvement.

Learn about how your past affects your mind. Research the Trauma Mind. Conquer your desires, learn about your mind, conquer your mind.

Recommended self-improvement books:

David Goggins - Can't hurt me
James Clear - Atomic Habits
Jeff Olson - The Slight Edge
Robert Kiyosaki - Rich Dad Poor Dad

[VoicesWithin]

It depends. Are you married?

The way you described it, it is not your decision. She is not into you. There is nothing to "fight" for.

[Tai_zi21]

Dun waste ur time more fishes in the ocean waiting for u

[coypredator]

Originally Posted by lovethaibabes

Just sharing my opinions which are based on past experiences in my own life.

Give up chasing. PCC it out when the urge arises. Block her on SM.

Don't let another person mess with your mind just because you want her pussy.

Chase Life instead. Become a better person. Chase self-improvement.

Learn about how your past affects your mind. Research the Trauma Mind. Conquer your desires, learn about your mind, conquer your mind.

Recommended self-improvement books:

David Goggins - Can't hurt me
James Clear - Atomic Habits
Jeff Olson - The Slight Edge
Robert Kiyosaki - Rich Dad Poor Dad

Thank you for your thoughtful advice bro!

It's not too easy to forget her. And changing my habits especially.

[lovethaibabes]

Originally Posted by coypredator

Thank you for your thoughtful advice bro!

It's not too easy to forget her. And changing my habits especially.

I understand you. Because I had messed around before. I spent so much $$ on the gold-diggers.

A few years have past now, I now see these women as gold-diggers.

I won't completely forget them. That's impossible.

But as time goes by, they take up lesser and lesser space in my mind.

Whenever I feel the urge I just PCC it out.

Clear the pipes, clear the mind.

[hoosdathu]

looks like bro TS kena friendzoned

[coypredator]

Originally Posted by hoosdathu

looks like bro TS kena friendzoned

I actually wish it's true. Truth is idk what she wants and it's toxic. Instead of guessing, told her that its better we be friends.

She tried reconnecting but... Different feel.

Time to find my 28th fwb.

[hokkienme56]

Originally Posted by lovethaibabes

Just sharing my opinions which are based on past experiences in my own life.

Give up chasing. PCC it out when the urge arises. Block her on SM.

Don't let another person mess with your mind just because you want her pussy.

Chase Life instead. Become a better person. Chase self-improvement.

Learn about how your past affects your mind. Research the Trauma Mind. Conquer your desires, learn about your mind, conquer your mind.

Recommended self-improvement books:

David Goggins - Can't hurt me
James Clear - Atomic Habits
Jeff Olson - The Slight Edge
Robert Kiyosaki - Rich Dad Poor Dad

yes bro, totally agree with u. Back in the days when i use to date, everytime i break up i always focus to get better and improve myself. It helps to build your own self confidence oso and u end up having upgrade in women.

[ongkp]

Originally Posted by coypredator

Met this married lady for 1.5 years.

Started out as friends and met once in a while for coffee and drinks.
She shared her hubby cheating on her. She got 2 kids cant leave him and working for him in his business.

She wanted to just date people.

I tried courting her initially. She will always meet me, text asap but nvr wanted to get intimate. And said we are soulmate.

One day, she said she is ok to be lover. So we did for 2 months. Loads of intimate texts and calls but no sex.

Then one day we argued and she called it quits and now she is very distant to me. She still has issues with her hubby she says. She replies fast but feels different. And she started to be active on her social media again, posting her pics.

I care and like her. But I feel I can't get her.

Should I fight on, give up or be friends?

I’m my opinion. You are only on standby and a hearing partner. Do move on!!!

[Penetrator3]

I'm curious; how much money have you spent on her so far?

[hoosdathu]

Originally Posted by coypredator

I actually wish it's true. Truth is idk what she wants and it's toxic. Instead of guessing, told her that its better we be friends.

She tried reconnecting but... Different feel.

Time to find my 28th fwb.

u've not only been friendzoned, she's got u in her toxic mindfark friendzone...
a bit more jialat

just heck care her and get ur 28th fwb

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by coypredator

Met this married lady for 1.5 years.

Started out as friends and met once in a while for coffee and drinks.
She shared her hubby cheating on her. She got 2 kids cant leave him and working for him in his business.

She wanted to just date people.

I tried courting her initially. She will always meet me, text asap but nvr wanted to get intimate. And said we are soulmate.

One day, she said she is ok to be lover. So we did for 2 months. Loads of intimate texts and calls but no sex.

Then one day we argued and she called it quits and now she is very distant to me. She still has issues with her hubby she says. She replies fast but feels different. And she started to be active on her social media again, posting her pics.

I care and like her. But I feel I can't get her.

Should I fight on, give up or be friends?

Depends. What was the argument about?