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Old 21-08-2020, 08:07 AM
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Re: from fun to love to acquaintance

Give up and move on. Time heals..
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Re: from fun to love to acquaintance

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Met this married lady for 1.5 years.

Started out as friends and met once in a while for coffee and drinks.
She shared her hubby cheating on her. She got 2 kids cant leave him and working for him in his business.

She wanted to just date people.

I tried courting her initially. She will always meet me, text asap but nvr wanted to get intimate. And said we are soulmate.

One day, she said she is ok to be lover. So we did for 2 months. Loads of intimate texts and calls but no sex.

Then one day we argued and she called it quits and now she is very distant to me. She still has issues with her hubby she says. She replies fast but feels different. And she started to be active on her social media again, posting her pics.

I care and like her. But I feel I can't get her.

Should I fight on, give up or be friends?
To be honest.. you were her virtual fling. A toy and pastime.

She got tired of it so move on.

U r just feeling the pangs of not scoring. I have a virtual relationship with a lady as well... 10 years now but we never met but we are close on text.

That is what support should be, not aiming at the pussy even if you want it but thinking for what is good for her.
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Old 21-08-2020, 11:19 PM
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Re: from fun to love to acquaintance

TS and other bros in similar situations,


1.
I feel compelled to reply to this thread because I sincerely do not wish any bros to fall into the hole that I fell into.

2.
TS, you have stepped into the pussy trap and have fallen into a black hole. Why did you step on the the pussy trap? Try looking back into your past. Do you have some trauma, some unfulfilled needs in your past? Did you have some difficulty in childhood, or young adulthood? Identify your triggers and be aware when you are being triggered by your past. This is so that you can control your actions instead of being unconsciously controlled by your past.

3.
Now is the chance to pull yourself out of the black hole before you fall further inside. In order to feel empowered I encourage you to view this incident as something happening for you instead of happening to you. This incident is the catalyst that will propel you to effect change in your life.

4.
The first step to effecting change on yourself is to change your mindset. I feel this is a very important first step. Look at the woman objectively, instead of subjectively. The fact is she is a used, smelly, loose pussy with 2 kids. Maybe you are attracted to her smell. Fact is you are merely attracted to her perfume (a chemical). Maybe you are attracted to her looks and body. Fact is she is using makeup (another chemical) to attract men. Fact is her figure (boobs and butt), which she probably used to attract you, are merely lumps of rancid fat and decaying flesh. Fact is she is not inherently attractive. It is our past experiences, societal norms and media which makes her attractive to our mind. Fact is she is cunningly toying with you but is not giving you what you want - sex. Fact is she is advertising herself on social media aka attracting other men aka slut. Fact is she will inevitably change (in terms of personality, looks and body) with time and will not stay the same in the future.

5.
The second step is to block her on social media. Out of sight, out of mind. You may feel that she is your soulmate. You may feel that she fulfills some unmet needs in your life. However do note that if someone has the power to build you up, she also has the power to tear you down. You do not need anyone to build you up. You can become a better person yourself.

6.
The third step is to commit to a regular PCC schedule. Whenever you feel the urge for women, just PCC it out. Clear the pipes, clear the mind. Watch some porn and see what women are willing do for money. I believe our minds are biologically wired such that whenever we siao chong nao we look for ways to release. Such ways include ML, FL, soulmates, etc. PCC it out and you won't feel the desire to look for them. You will save a lot of money too.

7.
Finally the last step is to strive for self-improvement. Be honest with yourself. The fact that you stepped on the trap and fell into the black hole is an indication that certain areas of your life are not optimal. Finding a soulmate or soulmates could be a coping mechanism, a way for you to cope with the problems in your life. Identify areas of your life which can be improved. Some possible areas are:-

a. Work (are you experiencing problems in Work;my suggestion - the wrong job can do more harm than good)
b. Family (are there family problems;my suggestion work out these problems if possible, if not, aim to move out in future)
c. Health (are you healthy;my suggestion healthy body, healthy mind)
d. Wealth (are you managing money properly;my suggestion sort out your finances)

8.
Recommended reading (books/media that impacted me):-

a. the.holistic.psychologist on instagram on childhood trauma
b. Atomic Habits (James Clear), Compound Effect (Darren Hardy) and The Slight Edge (Jeff Olson) on the importance of habit forming and consistency in our actions.
c. Rich Dad Poor Dad (Robert Kiyosaki) on the right definition of Assets and Liabilities
d. Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps on paying off debt
e. David Goggins the ex-Navy Seal and his book Can't Hurt Me (I can't recommend this enough)

Most of these books can be gotten free or you can watch book summaries on Youtube.
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Re: from fun to love to acquaintance

Cut your losses and move on. Not worth giving her the attention ar
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