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Old 22-08-2020, 09:03 AM
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OPEN LETTER to bros who have fallen into the KC-trap

OPEN LETTER TO BROS WHO HAVE FALLEN INTO THE KC-TRAP


1.
I feel compelled to start this thread because I sincerely do not wish any bros to fall into the hole that I fell into.

2.
You have stepped into the pussy trap and have fallen into a black hole. Why did you step into the pussy trap? Try looking back into your past. Do you have some trauma, some unfulfilled needs in your past? Did you have some difficulty in childhood, or young adulthood? Identify your triggers and be aware when you are being triggered by your past. This is so that you can control your actions instead of being unconsciously controlled by your past.

3.
Now is the chance to pull yourself out of the black hole before you fall further inside. I encourage you to view this incident as something happening for you instead of happening to you. This incident is the catalyst that will propel you to effect change in your life.

4.
The first step is to change your mindset. I feel this is a very important first step. So far you have let women mess up your mind. Look at women objectively from now on, instead of subjectively. The fact is women’s bodies are very similar to ours. Maybe you are attracted to her smell. Fact is you are merely attracted to her perfume (a chemical). Her body smells bad like us if she doesn’t put on perfume. Maybe you are attracted to her looks and body. Fact is she is using makeup (another chemical) to attract men. Fact is her figure (boobs and butt), which she probably used to attract you, are merely propped-up lumps of rancid fat and decaying flesh. Fact is her pussy is merely a smelly, used, black hole. Fact is she is not inherently attractive. It is our past experiences, societal norms and media which makes her attractive to our mind. Ask yourself why are you attracted to her face and body? Is it due to your childhood, social factors or due to the media (including porn). Fact is she is a gold-digger who has slept with very many men. Fact is she merely wants to leech off you. Fact is a long-distance relationship does not work and she will keep asking you for money while leeching off other men behind your back. Fact is no amount of money will satisfy a gold-digger. Fact is even if you do get her, she will inevitably change (in terms of personality, face and body) and will not stay the same as when you first met her.

5.
The second step is to block her on social media. Out of sight, out of mind. You may feel that she is your soulmate. You may feel that she fulfills some unmet needs in your life. However do note that if someone has the power to build you up, she also has the power to tear you down. You do not need anyone to build you up. You can become a better person yourself.

6.
The third step is to commit to a regular PCC schedule. Whenever you feel the urge for women, just PCC it out. Be disciplined. Cultivate awareness of your horniness. Watch some porn and see what women are willing to do for money. Clear the pipes, clear the mind. I believe our minds are biologically wired such that whenever we siao chong nao we look for ways to release. You may have been conditioned in the past to look for MLs and FLs, etc when you siao chong nao. Now learn to PCC it out whenever you feel the urge and you won't feel the desire to look for them. You will save a lot of money too.

7.
Finally the last step is to strive for self-improvement. Be honest with yourself. The fact that you stepped onto the pussy trap and fell into the black hole is an indication that certain areas of your life are not optimal. Finding a FL or ML could be a coping mechanism, a way for you to cope with the problems in your life. Identify areas of your life which can be improved on. Some possible areas are:-

a. Work (are you experiencing problems in Work; my suggestion - the wrong job can do more harm than good)
b. Family (are there family problems; my suggestion work out these problems if possible, if not, aim to move out in future)
c. Health (are you healthy; my suggestion healthy body, healthy mind)
d. Wealth (are you managing money properly; my suggestion sort out your finances and aim for financial independence)
e. Friends/Hobbies (have you given up on friends/hobbies in pursuit of pussy?)

8.
Recommended reading (books/media that impacted me):-

a. the.holistic.psychologist on instagram on childhood trauma
b. Atomic Habits (James Clear), The Compound Effect (Darren Hardy) and The Slight Edge (Jeff Olson) on the importance of habit forming and long-term consistency in our actions.
c. Rich Dad Poor Dad (Robert Kiyosaki) on the right definition of Assets and Liabilities
d. Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps on paying off debts using the Snowball Method
e. David Goggins (ex-Navy Seal)’s book Can't Hurt Me on the mind-body connection (I can't recommend this enough)

Most of these books can be gotten free or you can watch book summaries on Youtube.

9.
Final Word
Become a person that you are proud of.
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Old 22-08-2020, 11:52 AM
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Re: OPEN LETTER to bros who have fallen into the KC-trap

Thanks bro for the reminder and the summary of points.
It's definitely a good reminder for all of us who chiong regularly to TRY not to mix emotions into play.
It's hard as we are only human and we crave human connection but we just need to be conscious and acknowledge it to move on
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Re: OPEN LETTER to bros who have fallen into the KC-trap

TS, so what position u are doing now?
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Re: OPEN LETTER to bros who have fallen into the KC-trap

Thanks bro, this is very good advice. Also, I also highly reccomend David Goggins! The man is a real inspiration for everything, career to personal goals! Cheers bro!
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Also, I also highly reccomend David Goggins! The man is a real inspiration for everything, career to personal goals! Cheers bro!
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