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Old 27-10-2021, 02:42 PM
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That's why I do not have any social media presence...no one to tag and none to tag me...

Furthermmore, Google Location Tracking and History will track your location automatically unless you clear history regularly and turn off this function...

As some bro's has pointed out, once complacency sets in, chances of mistakes happening occurs...Don't think your so called Wednesday night cycling and supper with the boys is an auto excuse to go out
If you get an IT savvy wife, that's it. Lol
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Re: Bros who cheat

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That's why I do not have any social media presence...no one to tag and none to tag me...

Furthermmore, Google Location Tracking and History will track your location automatically unless you clear history regularly and turn off this function...

As some bro's has pointed out, once complacency sets in, chances of mistakes happening occurs...Don't think your so called Wednesday night cycling and supper with the boys is an auto excuse to go out
I do not have social media too…just dun want to be in someone’s video being naked with their wives, and the video circulating on social media or some WhatsApp chat. Not a nice situation to be in. I dun get emotionally involve, only do it once a week, sometimes weekday afternoon, some weekends, either Saturday or Sunday, try not to get routine. Always in a hotel with private parking, never in public..never at each other’s home, even if it’s available.
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Old 27-10-2021, 05:10 PM
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Re: Bros who cheat

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Turn off Location services / GPS for your phone..
That is useless. She can ask you to send a location pin in your whatsapp. There is an option to track your live location too. Parents can use this method to track where your child is at every moment in time.

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What if the 小三 or FB is also married? Will the risk be lesser or greater for the bro who cheats? Safer to go ahead?
Not really safer to go ahead. Most of us guys are just concerned about getting into her vagina and how to start a regular arrangement. We didn't think of the exit plan before we start. Will the regular arrangement be forever or will it end at some point in time? If you forsee it ending after some time, how will it end and if it is within your control? Many guys just choose to 'ghost' the girl. Not a nice mature way to end.

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If my husband cheated, do I even it out by cheating?
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So is there an itch? Yes. My sex drive is not dead. To get back? I'm not sure. I feel very unfair for myself of cos
Stay calm. Any kids involved and how old are they? I have a soft spot for children. Whatever issues we adults have, let's try to cushion the children away from as much damage as possible. Otherwise it may affect them mentally and emotionally. Then whenever the issue you are facing now may last another generation (your children's generation). For example, your husband cheats and your marriage turns into an angry shouting match at home. Some kids just think that a normal marriage is like that, full of anger and shouting. Whoever shout the loudest win or whoever pays most of the bill wins...

I will also analyse things this way. Is it as an issue of the body or an issue of the mind. When he cheats on you, where does the hurt lie? In your body (any body parts hurting) or does the hurt lie in your mind (the more you think, the angrier you get)?

If you have unfulfilled sexual needs, is an issue of the body or the mind? I suspect it's a mental block that is preventing you from relaxing enough into an orgasm. If it's a physical issue (as in he doesn't last long enough or isn't skilful enough), then you will obviously seek a physical solution (vibrator or another guy).

Your hesitancy towards revenge sex and how you feel unfair to yourself. Is this unhappiness/uncertainty an issue of the body or mind? I feel it's an issue of the mind again. You felt 'bullied' and disrespected. Some ladies feel if you don't want me, then there are other men outside who will want me. There is not much point seeking a sense of self-worth from horny guys who just want to use you to ejaculate sperm.

If the bulk are issues of the mind (心病), how does seeking a physical solution (another man) solve the underlying issues? It may worsen things as a new guy or guys can add new problems.

Calm down first. Think carefully. Got kids involved? If yes, everything is different.
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Old 27-10-2021, 07:56 PM
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Re: Bros who cheat

Wife may not be savvy but got IT savvy KPJ friends....

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If you get an IT savvy wife, that's it. Lol
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Old 27-10-2021, 08:02 PM
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Re: Bros who cheat

Yes, randomize each encounter...dont' make it a routine...randomize location, days, timing, even carpark pls dont' go to the same "fav" spot hor...

Home is never never never an option unless perhaps either one stays alone in a corner unit which is also accessible by staircase...without passing through all the KPJ neighbours...

Then again, dont' come and kpkb when eveyone reads this and decides to book MBS or Hotel Michael and still bump into familiar faces because all siam the common and or cheap places

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I do not have social media too…just dun want to be in someone’s video being naked with their wives, and the video circulating on social media or some WhatsApp chat. Not a nice situation to be in. I dun get emotionally involve, only do it once a week, sometimes weekday afternoon, some weekends, either Saturday or Sunday, try not to get routine. Always in a hotel with private parking, never in public..never at each other’s home, even if it’s available.
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Old 27-10-2021, 08:12 PM
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Wife may not be savvy but got IT savvy KPJ friends....
That's why need to CSI her friends lol
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Old 27-10-2021, 08:38 PM
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Re: Bros who cheat

I think in any breakup, percentage of contribution is:
Men = 40%
KPJ female friends = 40%
Woman = 20%

Thinking aloud again...

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That's why need to CSI her friends lol
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That is useless. She can ask you to send a location pin in your whatsapp. There is an option to track your live location too. Parents can use this method to track where your child is at every moment in time.
Wahhh ... this is too much already. It's like being told to wear a tracking device. Surely that is unacceptable even for a married guy. Unless that someone got caught cheating before then too bad, have to wear that tracking device
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Re: Bros who cheat

Maybe talking to your wife about it would help. It's still better cheating and getting caught afterwards not sure in what circumstances it would be agreeable but perhaps she's open to try out more things and you never know
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Re: Bros who cheat

Initially, I thought this is a very lame thread.
But the comments are really interesting! - Thanks to all!
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Old 28-10-2021, 01:22 PM
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Re: Bros who cheat

I've got a friend whose wife will check his cum volume and see if he's outside cheating lol.
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Re: Bros who cheat

What's there to talk about?

It's not like trying to decide the wall colour of the baby room or the country for the next vacation...

So you are ok to talk about infidelity when you catch your other half blowing off another kkj? And that also gives you the excuse and reason to eat another abalone?



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Looking at this thread, most of the time men cheat is because of lack of sexual excitement or freshness or women losing libido. Transactional sex is the easiest way to avoid issues as this is purely business or needs based kind of transaction.

Best thing to do is to tackle the problem before it gets unsolvable, such as wife no longer wants sex, but you need it, basically you have to talk about it and really weigh the price vs sex risk reward. If the wife has totally lost libido (highly likely during menopause period, it will come back again) but if the wife permanently stops it, then this is a real problem meaning the wife no longer wants to fulfil needs and have no need for sex.

As much as we can say men have to be understanding and really love the wife, sadly men are physical and needs sex as much as the penis is able, I recall a thread on porn addiction which means masturbation which can be a good outlet but not healthy in the long run.

However, if a solution can't be met then something has to compromise, either the men masturbate and rely on porn or find another arrangement (beware of clingy ones when the girl is sweet and really have gf feel).

There is no right in cheating as in the definition itself but negotiate and talk it out, I believe women are not unreasonable and sex is not something they will block unless it's health related. I always trust ladies want to go all the way for their man when their man is worth it.
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Re: Bros who cheat

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I've got a friend whose wife will check his cum volume and see if he's outside cheating lol.
That's a good way to check,sure accurate ,cos those frequent sex will hv less sperms, esp on that day have a few rounds already,everyday a few shot ,the cum will get lesser as need time to build up,esp those with frequent shot ,sperms will be less also ,cause unload into other girls passes,lol
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I've got a friend whose wife will check his cum volume and see if he's outside cheating lol.
I heard about this from a friend too - that his wife checks his cum volume.
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