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Old 13-02-2022, 11:08 PM
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Found out that wife been cheating

I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
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Old 13-02-2022, 11:15 PM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
If I am in your shoe, 1st thing I will do take evidence of all the communication and than confront her.
Worst case scenario is to end the marriage
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Old 13-02-2022, 11:19 PM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
well.....being in this forum, im guessing it's the same vice versa?
just take a step back and think about the consequence and end game?

any kids, matrimonial asset, business, money to split
or just forget and carry life as usual

u look for your ml or fl whatever turns u on
and let her do her thing
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Old 13-02-2022, 11:37 PM
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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
How bad is the cheating? Past or now still ongoing? Post the chat here?
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Old 13-02-2022, 11:50 PM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

One sub-forum not enough, must post on two!

Do you love her enough to find out why, and salvage it if possible?

If not, collect evidence (whatsapp messages don't count), offer up your best defence (financially) in terms of what assets are YOURS and yours alone, and how shitty a mother (hopeless drug addict who lets the children go hungry etc) she is if you want care and control of your kids.

Btw, have you never cheated? If so I am absolutely impressed because I'm in the man-is-limited-by-his-options camp.

And if you have, what are you upset about?
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Old 14-02-2022, 12:40 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

Best to discuss and see whether can still continue on the marriage. There are other options too.
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Old 14-02-2022, 02:51 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

has there been any problems or underlying issues between the 2 of you that's been left unaddressed/festering for quite some time?

Maybe try to figure out what went wrong or stale and see if you 2 can work through it.
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
Find the lover's wife and fuck her. Make it foursome.
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Old 14-02-2022, 10:54 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
What are you waiting for? Get the evidence and go straight to a divorce attorney!
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Old 14-02-2022, 11:08 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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Find the lover's wife and fuck her. Make it foursome.
hahaha dont get angry get even sibo. nice theory la.

for TS

ignorance is bliss sometimes. feel the butterflies in ur stomach bo. calm down first then find one evening and talk to her.

all the best la. divorce is not the only way. maybe poly relationship may work for u two.
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Old 14-02-2022, 11:51 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

bro you know this is sex forum right? either you post the naked pics here or go edmw for better advice lol
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Old 14-02-2022, 11:52 AM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

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I recently found a bunch of WhatsApp chat backups
Some of the contents show that my wife has been cheating
What should i do?
U guys owe to one another for a talk on this, amicably.
Sure the sting of betrayal sucks and probably anger is raging.
But nothing fruitful is going to come out when one of u or both are going into this head strong.

Talk it over. Amicably not because of hoping for a beautiful ending.
Amicably so that in the event both of decided to walk away separately, do it in a less hurtful way.

Cheating, believe it or not is due to the lack of communication on both parties. It is, fundamentally so.
So talk it over and find out why. If it is salvageable, do it.
If u decided to move on and start something new, at least u know u guys have explored and talked about the possibilities and the conclusion was no.

Dont look at the act of betrayal. Look at the cause and root.
Just my opinion. I am 51 this year.
Have seen so many of such cases within my social circle.
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Old 14-02-2022, 01:56 PM
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

In the first place, why the itchy kkb go and see the backups, etc...

You want curiosity killed the cat or ignorance is bliss situation...???

Now you know already, what you plan to do about it? Will you action on the good advise given by all the bros here? Or you just go back to your mancave and suck thumb?

You sure you dont have anything incriminating that she knows? So who has more to lose? Assets? Money? Reputation? Face? Position?

Sometimes, its better to let sleeping dogs lie...

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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

By posting in this section,

can we expect a story?

Otherwise should post in Matters of the Heart ......
Here is stimulation for our cocks
There, got people with listening ears I guess

But don't feel sad. It's just fair play I guess.
Accept it and move on.

You're a Lao Jiao (old bird) here also..take it easy Bro. Works both ways
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Re: Found out that wife been cheating

It is very sad this happened one day before Valentine's Day.
Totally spoilt the mood.

Can see the frantic search for answers from different posting on sub-sections.

Based on your question, you are not the type to swallow in pity. You don't even have mood to celebrate today. Don't have to lie to me.

My best suggestion would be divorce for you.
Take it that I am doing a good deed on Valentine's Day.

You want the answer, I give you.
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