The Asian Commercial Sex Scene  

Go Back   The Asian Commercial Sex Scene > For stuff you can't discuss with your Facebook Account > Matters of the Heart.

Notices

Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help.

User Tag List

Reply
 
Thread Tools
  #61  
Old 26-11-2021, 08:33 AM
Kongsh Kongsh is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 10
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 83 / Power: 4
Kongsh deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Let's find FL at Johor after Johor open lane for all residents from Singapore instead of vtl
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #62  
Old 26-11-2021, 08:42 AM
subidowa subidowa is online now
Samster
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 2,520
Mentioned: 2 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 927 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 180 / Power: 14
subidowa is a Helpful and Caring Samstersubidowa is a Helpful and Caring Samster
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Settle this weekend first la. Where to drink
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #63  
Old 04-12-2021, 08:25 PM
pinkcheese pinkcheese is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2017
Posts: 16
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 3 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 86 / Power: 5
pinkcheese deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by HaoJiaoXiangQi View Post
Prefer to watch Ole's on the wheel, so fun
So sad, no more Ole
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #64  
Old 08-12-2021, 05:47 AM
HCKing HCKing is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 2,561
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 5 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 779 / Power: 14
HCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to beholdHCKing is a splendid one to behold
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by SadLoser View Post
QFT.

Just sharing my humble opinions on this- there's absolutely nothing wrong for a guy to be paying for sex or companionship in any form. Cos it's damm hell difficult for an average joe to get any actions from normal gals these days.

In this era of social media & dating apps, any average gal will get lots & lots of validation online and endless messages/prepositions from guys all the times. They simply have to sit back, eat popcorns and pick the best dude from the lot - whether is it for dating or for a casual fling.

Being a gal in today's society is literally life on easy mode. Being a pretty gal literally is like the world is handed to u on a sliver platter. Spoilt for choice, receive endless validations & support from simps etc

For a guy - u really gotta stand out in terms of looks/height/wealth to be even given a chance.

So of course many more guys go for commercial sex as compared to gals who can find companionship much much easier
these days looks or wealth might not even help to land you a chiobu gf liao.

the thing abt modern generation girls is technically they dont really need a guy around. girls are actually happier hanging out with fellow charbo on girls night out, shopping, eating and gossiping to their heart content. financially they are already independent, unlike the older generation lao charbo that feel 'very proud' getting married with wealthy guys and shake legs be housewives.
these days girls earn alot and also spend alot on themselves, of cos can maintain their looks much better than the lao charbo.

only time they thought of finding a bf or companion to be specific is when they feel really bored and need an opposite sex to entertain them. simps are useful in that aspect. giving lots of attention mah, which girls wont enjoy them? just try stop giving them attention for 3 days and the chiobu disappears, lol. but then again, these simps could also be wasting their time and effort and ultimately get friendzoned when the chiobu hooked up their dream ang mo hunk for a romantic sexcapade.

so need not feel down or jealous of couples out there, in a modern society, things are moving like fast food, the fantasy of getting together and live happily ever after is outdated. ppl are only looking to fulfil their own desires. the couples you see outside might not be everlasting or real love as well. so chill man.
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #65  
Old 17-01-2022, 01:19 AM
Peacekeeping Peacekeeping is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2021
Posts: 576
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 304 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 700 / Power: 1
Peacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to behold
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by pearlnjewel View Post
Sorry to hear that, glad you avoided the flirty girl and moved on.
There are a lot of wrecked playgirls flirting around for attention. *Not saying all girls are bad*. Too bad the girls got what they want but guys are left hanging.

Obligation to the country, will have many others think otherwise. Especially frustrated single guys.

If you dwell deeper into this topic, a country without families is not a strong country. As more and more singles in the country, the country will fall apart.
I worry for my country too. Being moneyminded and practical kills romance. Many people have no emotions or they are numb to it. Afterall passion is a stored value card only
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #66  
Old 04-02-2022, 01:08 AM
onsenmaster onsenmaster is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Posts: 114
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 117 / Power: 9
onsenmaster deserves two Tigers! - He's a Great Guyonsenmaster deserves two Tigers! - He's a Great Guy
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

I have been actively chionging ever since I broke up with my long time gf. Have no desires to find anyone and cannot imagine loving anyone else at this point in time (and I foresee for at least the next year). So I just simply chiong to hearts content and don't feel any guilt at all. When I was with my ex, I did chiong a bit but each time I did (on the rare occasions) I would be filled with guilt

My problem is I have been visiting the same ML for past few months, at least 4-5 times a month. I haven't been KC because I don't speak very good mandarin and it's difficult for us to communicate. But whenever I'm with her, I'll close my eyes and pretend she was my ex. After an hour, the deed will be done and I'll go home and sleep it off. Rinse wash repeat

I don't know what I'm doing with my life also. At times I do feel very lonely because I have nothing else to do
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #67  
Old 04-02-2022, 10:30 PM
Datingafter35 Datingafter35 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: May 2016
Location: Singapore
Posts: 163
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 16 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 249 / Power: 7
Datingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring SamsterDatingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring SamsterDatingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring Samster
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

43 do cold approach. Creepy? Dress the part. Do cold approach creepy?
Recently learn about red pill. From China TV.

Pretty hard to change for an old dog. But I did cold approach in Thailand when I was 38. So maybe Singapore pretty hard.
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #68  
Old 05-02-2022, 03:13 PM
fallen11 fallen11 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: May 2015
Posts: 1,352
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 278 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 1233 / Power: 8
fallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud offallen11 has much to be proud of
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by Datingafter35 View Post
43 do cold approach. Creepy? Dress the part. Do cold approach creepy?
Recently learn about red pill. From China TV.

Pretty hard to change for an old dog. But I did cold approach in Thailand when I was 38. So maybe Singapore pretty hard.
higher chance you'll be facing a police investigation for doing this in singapore nowadays. more & more girls really getting delusional
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #69  
Old 08-02-2022, 12:11 PM
Datingafter35 Datingafter35 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: May 2016
Location: Singapore
Posts: 163
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 16 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 249 / Power: 7
Datingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring SamsterDatingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring SamsterDatingafter35 is a Helpful and Caring Samster
Quote:
Originally Posted by fallen11 View Post
higher chance you'll be facing a police investigation for doing this in singapore nowadays. more & more girls really getting delusional
I've tried when I was 38 in public places and clubs. But of course you need to be reasonably dressed.

Singapore possible but not as receptive as Thailand. But Thailand. No piak. Only movies and makan. Sian. But my younger friends have tonnes of dtf from milfs.
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #70  
Old 26-02-2022, 01:44 PM
MrFuck MrFuck is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Feb 2018
Posts: 119
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 113 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 232 / Power: 5
MrFuck is a Helpful and Caring SamsterMrFuck is a Helpful and Caring SamsterMrFuck is a Helpful and Caring Samster
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

hello everyone, it has been nearly 2 years since i started this thread and iím heartened that many bros saw this as an outlet where they can express similar feelings and thoughts.

2 years on, i will be reaching a milestone, age-wise, and life havenít changed much for me. iím still cheong-ing fls and mls stealthily and consistently, havenít been on a date since 2019. Yet, iím happy to say that my headspace is in a better place than when i first started this thread for a couple of reasons -

i got a new job, and i now, have a clear idea that i do want, in the future, to experience living alone for an extended period of time, and so iím not looking for a relationship any time soon.
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #71  
Old 27-02-2022, 01:25 AM
CookCrew CookCrew is online now
Samster
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 61
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 15 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 836 / Power: 10
CookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to beholdCookCrew is a splendid one to behold
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFuck View Post
hello everyone, it has been nearly 2 years since i started this thread and iím heartened that many bros saw this as an outlet where they can express similar feelings and thoughts.

2 years on, i will be reaching a milestone, age-wise, and life havenít changed much for me. iím still cheong-ing fls and mls stealthily and consistently, havenít been on a date since 2019. Yet, iím happy to say that my headspace is in a better place than when i first started this thread for a couple of reasons -

i got a new job, and i now, have a clear idea that i do want, in the future, to experience living alone for an extended period of time, and so iím not looking for a relationship any time soon.
wow thats great to hear TS. Glad you were able to get your life figured out!
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #72  
Old 03-03-2022, 07:31 PM
maleescort7 maleescort7 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Location: Blackhole
Posts: 470
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 14 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 186 / Power: 4
maleescort7 is a Helpful and Caring Samstermaleescort7 is a Helpful and Caring Samster
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by onsenmaster View Post
I have been actively chionging ever since I broke up with my long time gf. Have no desires to find anyone and cannot imagine loving anyone else at this point in time (and I foresee for at least the next year). So I just simply chiong to hearts content and don't feel any guilt at all. When I was with my ex, I did chiong a bit but each time I did (on the rare occasions) I would be filled with guilt

My problem is I have been visiting the same ML for past few months, at least 4-5 times a month. I haven't been KC because I don't speak very good mandarin and it's difficult for us to communicate. But whenever I'm with her, I'll close my eyes and pretend she was my ex. After an hour, the deed will be done and I'll go home and sleep it off. Rinse wash repeat

I don't know what I'm doing with my life also. At times I do feel very lonely because I have nothing else to do
Never ever stuck to one ML/FL especially when you have pretty good money/job. If you pay, must change the taste. Dont ever think she is good/best.
__________________
If you don't like ANAL, you are a kid. Nobel Laureate at University of Anal and Deep Penetration.†
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #73  
Old 23-03-2022, 01:25 PM
zkdbec zkdbec is offline
Samster (Donor)
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 11
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 6 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 50279 / Power: 84
zkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond reputezkdbec has a reputation beyond repute
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by MrFuck View Post
I think a lot of bros can relate to this; the feeling of being a lonely chiongster. Most of us live double lives; in our public persona, we are probably seen as someone decent and no one would actually believe we are paying for sex, but well, we are.

For myself, I'm from a decent middle class family, and I've always seen as a "good boy" in everyone's eyes, from schooling days all the way to my working place. Everyone sees me as the good innocent boy. At the same time, I am pretty undesirable, I'm everything opposite of the ideal image of a man. Opposite of tall, good looking, rich, talents, and normal. None of my dates go beyond the 1st date, I've been ghosted countless times both in real life and online, I've never been in any relationship before, and none of my friends are keen on introducing me to anybody. In that sense, no one pays attention to my love life, I'm just an unimpressionable good boy in their eyes whom they will deem not good enough for their friends, and that I will eventually find someone, but nobody wants to be that someone. That's okay, I've accepted it.

But I got to say, I foresee my road ahead to be a pretty lonely one, I will continue chiong because I have pretty high sex drive, but it will all be off the radar. Hopefully I will be able to maintain this double life for as long as possible.

Any bros out here living a "double life" as well?
Ya... I'm a young bro mid 20s and successful career, manage to play play crypto and earn a decent living. All my friends totally different, very westernized and still getting started in their careers. I don't have problem with getting into a relationship but like addicted to the easy pleasure of buying sex and chiong FLs... Not sure what to do with life already
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #74  
Old 23-03-2022, 09:01 PM
Peacekeeping Peacekeeping is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2021
Posts: 576
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 304 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 700 / Power: 1
Peacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to beholdPeacekeeping is a splendid one to behold
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by zkdbec View Post
Ya... I'm a young bro mid 20s and successful career, manage to play play crypto and earn a decent living. All my friends totally different, very westernized and still getting started in their careers. I don't have problem with getting into a relationship but like addicted to the easy pleasure of buying sex and chiong FLs... Not sure what to do with life already
So young already addicted... buying sex is for bros who canít get a gf or canít get satisfaction from wife. Healthy relationship is still the best. Get out of the bottomless pit while you can.
__________________
Save your bullets for a better catch
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
  #75  
Old 24-03-2022, 02:52 PM
Apollo's Avatar
Apollo Apollo is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 5,335
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 178 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 19826 / Power: 26
Apollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond reputeApollo has a reputation beyond repute
Re: The Lonely Chiongster

Quote:
Originally Posted by Peacekeeping View Post
So young already addicted... buying sex is for bros who canít get a gf or canít get satisfaction from wife. Healthy relationship is still the best. Get out of the bottomless pit while you can.
young old rich poor, all man will get abdicated for SEX
__________________
学问之美,在于使人一头雾水;诗歌之美,在于煽动男女出轨;女人之美,在于谎说得白日见鬼;男人之美,在于 爱得无怨无悔

Retired. This nick is for takeover now, please pm me if you're keen
Clicking this will result in you ignoring ALL of this member's posts. Share on Twitter
Don't quote WHOLE POST unnecessarily
Advert Space Available
Bypass censorship with https://1.1.1.1

Cloudflare 1.1.1.1
Reply



Bookmarks
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


t Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Can you stop as a chiongster? Vermogend2 Adult Discussions about SEX 26 20-09-2019 11:19 PM
Lonely Husband tries out Tinder app, matches with his own Lonely Wife, not sure how t Sammyboy RSS Feed Coffee Shop Talk of a non sexual Nature 0 08-08-2019 11:20 AM
Those pro siambu chiongster, pls lip lai bluewater Adult Discussions about SEX 16 04-09-2017 10:34 PM
Hi all chiongster! goodluck88 Newbie Issues/Say "Hi"/Testing/Tech stuff 0 25-07-2014 11:45 PM
Lonely lonely guy looking for people to chase the loneliness away..:( sandzman Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies? It's all here! 5 08-06-2011 08:40 PM


All times are GMT +8. The time now is 07:37 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.10
Copyright ©2000 - 2022, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2022 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
Copywrong © Samuel Leong 2006 ~ 2022 ph