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From a scientific point of view , point 2 changes can largely be attributed to brain chemistry changes and testosterone level dipping. Yes not only mothers are affected. These are Evolutionary adaptations to help propagate the species. Many of us are very much prisoners of our own biology.
Also like what Sadhguru says, children are 20year projects. In Sg , maybe 25 years is more likely. And marriage is by far the most stable social construct we have come up with to sustain these 20+ year projects. Last edited by EtherC; 05-08-2020 at 04:47 PM. Reason: grammar |
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having kids is never a financial investment it wont give you profit one. can say almost certain its a loss unless your kids grow up to be hollywood superstar or world class soccer player and you are their sole agent. |
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Its both theirs and their spouses' choice not to have any kids. got 1 couple even married to his 1st gf, no kids but happy. Both the man and wife are attractive in looks and behaviour. they bascially do almost everything togther. Watching men-liked drama series like Game of Thrones together. Learning courses about Artificial Intelligence together as both of them actually quite nerdy. Played video games together all the time. Yup, best friends & couple. For such case, can imagine how having a kid will destroy such a happy lifestyle. |
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If I can turn back time, I will not marry and will not have kids.
I will chase my hobbies, chase self-improvement and self-actualization. I will chase financial independence. |
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If you and partner have long decided the childless route, stick to it and don't be swayed by external influence. Every path have its pros and cons. End the day is what you want in your life that matters, don't be a follower and don't take opinions on face value. Walk your own path. We bring a new life to this world not as an investment to secure our retirement, if that is the mindset, hell no, please don't. Become a parent because you want to provide and nurture, to experience the pain and joy of seeing an infant grow into an adult. If the thought of that only strike fear in you and make you worry about the $$$ and freedom that you could have saved and enjoy for yourself, then you are probably better off not become a parent. Else resentment will only snowball when you realise is so costly to provide and you start to regret. Totally unhealthy. Last edited by Johndick; 17-08-2020 at 09:42 AM. |
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I agree with JohnDick
I think our perceptions changes with our personal situation If we do not have children we notice and envy those who have children. If we have children we notice and envy those who do not. One thing for sure, having a child is no child's play, financially and psychologically speaking. I only know that now I have children it is my responsibility as a MAN to take care of them till adulthood. Despite my feelings, despite having to give up certain things, certain ambitions in my life, I will fulfill my responsibility as a father, as a MAN It is a life-long commitment. |
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