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I got this account without my wife knowledge.. Is this considered cheating?
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First of all I think you have a keeper, the fact that she is not willing to have sex with you might mean you are not the right one for her or that she wants to wait to get married first. If it is the latter then that is very rare and special not many of them around. It does not mean she loves you less or her feelings are not as deep as yours it is more she has specific boundaries and rules which you should appreciate and honor. Remember relationship are not build on sex nor should that be a gauge of a relationship, it is an important part but should not be the be all and end all. If you are sexually frustrated, then speak to her communication is key which most people tend to negate. Don't expect anything to change but at least try maybe see if she is up to try something new, like a BJ or fake love making?? Dont insist on sex if you do she will just say NO as you have mentioned. If that does not work you can always resort to you good old hand, that should solve any frustrations you have. It has worked for many before you and will work for any after you. I would like to know did the sexting help with your sexual frustration? If it did why dont you just start sexting your girlfriend which you should already be doing! By looking or getting a FWB will only help as a sort term solution, once she finds out which will happen you will be without a girlfriend and a HJ which to me is in a worse place than what you are currently in. |
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I have an ex that texts 2 female colleagues asking them to go back to office to work on a Saturday when office is closed (reason when asked: he's just joking and it's for work), buys food for female ex-colleague to her new workplace (reason: maintaining friendship), texting a common female friend that I didn't like and asking for solo dinner (reason: thanking her for the help - when there wasn't a real help in the first place), texting secretly a female colleague non-stop evening/night and when asked, got very upset and said it's just work and also secretly deleted messages (reason: just colleague chatting), meeting different friends for lunch date and claiming it never happened (reason: the lunch never materialized), going for juagen (reason: for our sex life to be better) and many more
So all these constitute cheating/lying? Maybe male/female's perspectives are different, will really be interesting to hear about it.
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The perspective should not differ based on gender. The difference occurs based on morals and upbringing. Cheating will always be interpreted differently however I think most men and women can agree on common boundaries not to cross. For me the above examples mentioned are surely crossing the boundaries and considered cheating. I always ask myself would I feel comfortable if my wife/Gf did that. If the answer is no then why should I take the liberty to do it? I am not a jealous person by nature however is my partner behaved like that I am sure I would be and we all know jealousy is a terrible thing. Remember men crave recognition and attention especially from females, if they receive this attention from whom ever they will keep that going for as long as possible, whether this is from female colleagues or the likes. They then tend to do the shit you mentioned. Last edited by PandaFluff; 07-09-2020 at 02:35 PM. |
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Expecting the same thing to the partner, and yet losing temper and claiming its not cheating. At least, I know someone is on the same page as me about that.
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Talking about double standard, it is so common that many men/women who cheated, could not accept when they find out that their partners cheat on them.
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My cheating experiences started since high school for me. oK I'm bi right. I had a gf at that time and I went to her college and it was already late to go back so she called her friend which I know (he's crazy over me) and yeah we had fun that night. Another time was in a rented car.
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I feel we look at cheating all wrong Wheather we cheat or not will be decided by us and not society If i do something and i feel bad about it then its cheating For me if i go out do some shit and feel very happy to have my load off in a different hole and come back to home very happy man Look after better for my kids and wife then i dont consider that as cheating If i go back home frustrated and not happy then what good i can offer to my family Thats how i look at that....have a drak side make our bright side more bright 🌞 |
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So as long as you don’t feel you are cheating, you are not cheating? |
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I will see it as justification on his actions!
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Cheaters don't think cheating is wrong until they get cheated upon? anyway, it's a sex forum, bet many here cheat. So can't really judge ppl too
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Further more because you look after you children and wife does not give you carte blanche to do as you wish. Please take other people into consideration. If you go home and not happy leave/divorce your wife. Why fuck around at the expensive of others. Stop thinking about yourself, think of other. You are not the omega you think you are. Last edited by PandaFluff; 08-09-2020 at 09:30 AM. |
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