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Old 26-09-2020, 05:20 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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By this, i know you are not a parent.

I am a parent of teenage kids. I speak for most parents. We house our (rebellious and ungrateful) kids because we want to. Not because we have to.
I totally disagree with you. Your explanation "i am a parent" and "rebellious and ungrateful" itself carry the answer. You are taking your kids a liability. Did anyone including those kids beg you to have them? No. Did they ask you to must have them? A big No. You decided to have kids, so, it is your responsibility and duty to house them as long as they decide to leave you (yes, its their right to leave you whenever they want and you have fucking no moral grounds to cry). It is your duty (dont ever think you do a favor) to feed them, educate them, pay fees, house them, etc. Now people must step forward and break this shit mindset of parents which is the evil of everything. Why parents think its their moral and legal right that kids will treat them well, fullfill their desires, must follow their words, pay attention all the time in old age when they did not fullfill any of these when they have the power. Yes, majority of the parents take kids as slaves, dictate each and every decision, give no choice of choosing, force them to follow them blindly and do whatever they want. Why do they have expectations when they have no decision power? Feeding kids or housing them is not a favor, its your duty. If you dont fullfill your duty, you commit a crime.
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Old 27-09-2020, 03:28 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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I totally disagree with you. Your explanation "i am a parent" and "rebellious and ungrateful" itself carry the answer. You are taking your kids a liability. Did anyone including those kids beg you to have them? No. Did they ask you to must have them? A big No. You decided to have kids, so, it is your responsibility and duty to house them as long as they decide to leave you (yes, its their right to leave you whenever they want and you have fucking no moral grounds to cry). It is your duty (dont ever think you do a favor) to feed them, educate them, pay fees, house them, etc. Now people must step forward and break this shit mindset of parents which is the evil of everything. Why parents think its their moral and legal right that kids will treat them well, fullfill their desires, must follow their words, pay attention all the time in old age when they did not fullfill any of these when they have the power. Yes, majority of the parents take kids as slaves, dictate each and every decision, give no choice of choosing, force them to follow them blindly and do whatever they want. Why do they have expectations when they have no decision power? Feeding kids or housing them is not a favor, its your duty. If you dont fullfill your duty, you commit a crime.
Well said!
indeed it’s a moral obligation once one decides to be a parent.
if not willing to sacrifice wholeheartedly and expects some form of return In old age, then may as well not bear them.
That’s how “parental love is unconditional” is being coined.
Else yearly celebrate parental days for what significance?
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Old 27-09-2020, 05:48 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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tbh.. nowadays u wana have kids, must be prepared to jaga all the way regardless of the age.

u will want ur kid to care for u when u r old right?

the point is, if one decides to be a parent, he or she has an unspoken obligatory need to be selfless, regardless of the situation.
If not, then may as well ownself jaga ownself till old.
This thinking is totally wrong. There's no such a thing as jaga all the way! Parents also not obligated to will their house to the children when they passed on. As long as the parents give the kids good comfortable lives, teaches them the right moral values in life n gives them a good education all the way, the parents job is done already.
Whether the kids wanting to care for their parents in their old age is another issue altogether, much is also dependent on the financial status.
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Old 27-09-2020, 06:20 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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maybe u shud go find sugar mummy, can bonk and get paid summore... sugarbook or seeking arrangement.. ur choice
Wake up from your dreamland, u think so easy to get sugar mummy ah? LOL
Ask yourself 1st, do u even have the minimum quality to be a toy boy?
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Old 27-09-2020, 09:26 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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This thinking is totally wrong. There's no such a thing as jaga all the way! Parents also not obligated to will their house to the children when they passed on. As long as the parents give the kids good comfortable lives, teaches them the right moral values in life n gives them a good education all the way, the parents job is done already.
Whether the kids wanting to care for their parents in their old age is another issue altogether, much is also dependent on the financial status.


yes what I mean is if given a choice, parents will wan their kids to take care of them right? if u think I can live till 1000yrs old or prefer oneself check in old folks home when old, then by all means no need to try ur very best to accommodate.

if long as the children did not ask for $$$ to buy big ticket items like home and willing stay with parents, then there shd be no issue.
a home is for stay n not for flipping in old age for $$$.. if so; then uts real pathetic. ..may as well dont have kids in the 1st place.
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Old 28-09-2020, 10:01 AM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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yes what I mean is if given a choice, parents will wan their kids to take care of them right? if u think I can live till 1000yrs old or prefer oneself check in old folks home when old, then by all means no need to try ur very best to accommodate.
Are you sure about that? Then you have to see your children's face colour because you have become reliant on them.

Never a good position to be in. If I ever were to stay with mine when he's an adult, it must be by choice, not necessity.

What's wrong with a nursing home anyway?

Paid aged care is where the big money is because that's where we're headed for sure.
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Old 28-09-2020, 03:31 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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yes what I mean is if given a choice, parents will wan their kids to take care of them right? if u think I can live till 1000yrs old or prefer oneself check in old folks home when old, then by all means no need to try ur very best to accommodate.

if long as the children did not ask for $$$ to buy big ticket items like home and willing stay with parents, then there shd be no issue.
a home is for stay n not for flipping in old age for $$$.. if so; then uts real pathetic. ..may as well dont have kids in the 1st place.
Parents wanting their children to take care of them is the right thing but that doesn't mean living together. They want their privacy too. If u are capable, u should be getting your own property, near your parents would be good n not be constantly leeching on your parents.
Anyway nothing wrong with nursing home nowadays as this is the accepted norm n it is quite costly also.
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Old 28-09-2020, 11:50 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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Are you sure about that? Then you have to see your children's face colour because you have become reliant on them.

Never a good position to be in. If I ever were to stay with mine when he's an adult, it must be by choice, not necessity.

What's wrong with a nursing home anyway?

Paid aged care is where the big money is because that's where we're headed for sure.

Then it serve no purpose to preCreate if the end point is much preferred or by no choice, to be managed by strangers in old folks home than own flesh n blood.
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Old 29-09-2020, 04:40 PM
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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Then it serve no purpose to preCreate if the end point is much preferred or by no choice, to be managed by strangers in old folks home than own flesh n blood.
Talking is easy! Wait till when you're face with that situation than you'll know.
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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Last time still got occasionally go geylang find $50 prostitute now geylang close liao just stay at home after work, surf forums and watch tv.

Sometimes go to fave see some cheap massage or facial deals than go for it.

Got no money to buy resale hdb. Trying to bid to get 2 room bto. In the meantime, i am stuck staying with my mother who is a very mean person
做人要知足. You have a roof over your head that you do not have to pay a single cent for. You have a job when thousands have lost theirs due to the pandemic. You get to enjoy the simple pleasures of life. And you are complaining about this over the internet when more than half the world isn't even connected by landlines.

So how bad is your life really?

As people have said on this thread, it isn't hard to make new friends if you are willing to put in the effort. Also, it isn't hard to get a GF if you manage your expectations. If you don't have K-Pop star looks or a fat wallet, don't expect an IG model standard GF.

Your life is what you make of it.

Good luck.
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

do not close down yourself, try to find some girls in sugarbook.com
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

Do something on yourself rather than waiting for durian to drop is the only solution for you
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Do something on yourself rather than waiting for durian to drop is the only solution for you
Good advice but not enough.
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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Last time still got occasionally go geylang find $50 prostitute now geylang close liao just stay at home after work, surf forums and watch tv.

Sometimes go to fave see some cheap massage or facial deals than go for it.

Got no money to buy resale hdb. Trying to bid to get 2 room bto. In the meantime, i am stuck staying with my mother who is a very mean person



Aiya bro.. Mid 30 can buy houses under the single schemes wat... Buy house use Cpf la.. No need cash wan. Only 500 for otp.. If can't even have 500 than I dun think u can be save liaoo...
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Re: In my mid 30s, no gf, no friends, stuck in hdb with mum

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