How to get interested in wife again

[benq557]

Time to look for FB...ha...ha...

[lovespa88]

Originally Posted by samster101

Same problem TS. Good terms with wife. People generally say she is hot. Married 15+ years. But when time to do with her, either no mood or cannot erect. I dont eat out. No ED problem. Just sianz of the same old thing.

Tried asking her to wear sexy in public, outdoor sex, EIP. But she reluctant. So, jam. Sigh. Any other bros same situation?

Bro, i can feel you even though i am just married 5 years to my wife.
i think is the communication breakdown, wives don't get what the hubbies want . and sometime they say we don't get what they want . Maybe tired becos of other life commitment. Not many gals are willingly to try..nowadays i am chatting with female about sexual compatibilites.

How do you sustain not eating out when you don't enjoy sex with wife?
curious

[lovespa88]

Originally Posted by Weimun88

Good terms with wife

But everytime she ask sex I always no mood basically sian liao

Cannot erect liao and no lust

But with FL always got lust and can stand


The thing is my wife is hot at least a 9/10 and many many guys stare at her and her colleague all lust for her

Is there anyway for me to refresh the sexual lust

Any tip

Change of environment. maybe outdoor or in changing room. Before marriage, wife very adventurous, propose to have sex anywhere she like.
i was the one less guts then...imagine in the playground around hdb.
But after marriage, all the adventure die, even only do in missionary.
like lazy to even move on bed.

[wwk88]

Its not cannot stand.. It might be u frequent FL abit too often. U give yourself 1 week or 2 weeks without any actions to your lil bro. U can tell the difference after that . At least your wife is interested and ask for sex. Most brothers here dont enjoy that. It shows your wife still into u and wants u. But time is not on your side bro. So better take action soon! Good Luck

[nuclearkid]

If you really want to fulfil your marital duties, get something like a Candy B and when erected, just do it. Yours sounds like a mental issue and like some women who can fake orgasms, you can fake your interest once your erection is full blown. I am not advertising the product, just heard from a colleague who is 60+ and goes a-romping a few nights in a row with that aphrodisiac.

There are many ways of solving a problem, am just suggesting a way of papering over it. To drill down to the root cause, I think you are too familiar with your wife and have access to alternatives. There are ways to work around this problem, it is a matter of your desire to do so. Its not a novel problem, many men experience this.

[mike3329]

Life is full of ironies.

Bros come into the forum to complain about their wives who would not allow them to have their little bit of nookie....tired lah...headache lah...kids will hear lah..excuses, excuses....

Instead here we have bros who complain that their hot wives are more than willing but their dickies are not cooperative and refuse to rise to the occasion. The passion seems to be missing.

The 3rd group are lucky, their wives are willing and the hubbys' dickies always ready to perform. Just be thankful if you fit into this category. You and the wife get fine dining regularly at home. Count your blessings and enjoy!

[lovespa88]

Originally Posted by mike3329

Life is full of ironies.

Bros come into the forum to complain about their wives who would not allow them to have their little bit of nookie....tired lah...headache lah...kids will hear lah..excuses, excuses....

Instead here we have bros who complain that their hot wives are more than willing but their dickies are not cooperative and refuse to rise to the occasion. The passion seems to be missing.

The 3rd group are lucky, their wives are willing and the hubbys' dickies always ready to perform. Just be thankful if you fit into this category. You and the wife get fine dining regularly at home. Count your blessings and enjoy!

hahaha i believe many of us go through all of the above before, just in different life stages. now my wife want sex toys to spice her life .
sometime is clash of the titans, wrong timing. i enjoy most in the morning and afternoon, but most ladies like it in the night.

[danilov]

Originally Posted by mike3329

Life is full of ironies.

..

Instead here we have bros who complain that their hot wives are more than willing but their dickies are not cooperative and refuse to rise to the occasion. The passion seems to be missing.

...

This group need to get together and exchange wives, freshness solves the problem!

[lovespa88]

Originally Posted by danilov

This group need to get together and exchange wives, freshness solves the problem!

If only the wives can be proactive to know each others' wives and are horny to want to exchange husband or even try out couples fun

[coolboy1]

We men are sucker for new pussy and takes things for granted at home because your wife pussy is readily available for the taking.

2 ways you can solve this issue.

You stop fucking around for 2 weeks. Do not touch your wife wherever you feel like touching her. Ban your own hand from roaming around like controlling those forbidden zone. Lets see after 2 weeks, do you feel the urge for your wife.

Another, is to let your wife go out dating with men. Jealousy will get you back into the mood again. When your wife start to reject you for sex, then confirm you have the mood.

But to be honest, I hope you don't have to go through all this. It means the marriage is on the rock.

[lam1673]

Go for short holiday overseas 2D1N also OK, just forgot all the household chores and work problem, check in a nice hotel and has good sex.
I do it every month with my wife, go JB, KL Batam or Bangkok, have some fun time together. Sleep naked at night together and enjoy each other body.

[lovespa88]

Originally Posted by lam1673

Go for short holiday overseas 2D1N also OK, just forgot all the household chores and work problem, check in a nice hotel and has good sex.
I do it every month with my wife, go JB, KL Batam or Bangkok, have some fun time together. Sleep naked at night together and enjoy each other body.

Brother why are you here? Enjoying being a consultant for sex?
If I retired, I also want to build a sex consultant Enterprise. Do good die good.

[LaoErGePaPa]

Originally Posted by benq557

Go see doctor and take some viagra.

the viagra energy will re-direct to outside wild flowers

[samster101]

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[unsung80]

is she really 9/10 or typo error?