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Re: Need advice for dating a woman 8 years older than I am.
Do you see your life improving if you end it?
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Re: Need advice for dating a woman 8 years older than I am.
Step back and reflect.
Ppl evolve, could be better could be worse. Each could be better individually but still be toxic for each other. Make some space for yourself. If she keeps on finding fault with you, means relationship has turned toxic for both of you. Its better to be happy alone than to be in a perpetually toxic environment There are happier and more important things to focus on like building up CPF savings. |
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She asked for marriage multiple times. I gave financial reasons to not proceed.
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I mean even if I had made promises i.e never ever leave, I will feel guilty if anything bad happens. Actually, I am fearful that she might commit suicide which she attempted once when I tried to leave. Also what if she knows too much? |
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I feel I might be able to finally breathe and I will have more time to myself.
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In any relationship, there will be 1 leader and 1 follower. So in this relationship, who is the leader? If u are that alpha male, then u shd lead this relationship forward.
Nobody will ever know.. i am financially or emotionally ready for marriage. If that is what she wants, either u agree or u move on. |
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Actually I feel sorry for her. She must be close to 40 now. Her social circle (who may have attended her wedding dinner) probably knows she cheated on her ex-husband with you. If she introduces you to her family and friends, they would have been asking her when both of you are getting married. Her friends may have children and many gatherings will be chatting about work, husband and kids etc. Her life would seem quite empty by comparison. I can understand her insecurity at her current situation. She has given you everything she can give. Quite cruel to waste a woman's limited youth. She may have lost her chance to ever be a mum just by being with you.
You are in your early to mid 30s. It is easy for you to break up and look for a new girl in her late 20s, get married and have kids. A normal life in every aspect. You are not even a divorcee. No stigma after breaking up a 8 year old relationship. The loss on your side seems so minimal when compared to the disruption in her life. If you love her, why can't you marry her after 8 years? If marriage is never the final result, did you tell her there will never be a marriage or did you always tell her now is not the right time? The problem may not only just be her. You don't seemed like you know what you want in life. Change to a new gf and all these issues will still resurface.
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Re: Need advice for dating a woman 8 years older than I am.
Fuck first think later
If cannot work out just Pump and Dump |
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TS is funny, If TS can't satisfy her, let other alpha male satisfy her instead.
TS come here asking for advice is definitely incapable to settle anything. What TS want to hear? Sugar coated bullshit that you are very nice guy sweet sugar and should continue relationship with her?? TS do a favor and let her go please, she is already not young, stop wasting her time let her find a partner that can satisfy her and give her happiness. That guy is definitely NOT YOU!! |
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Let's look at it from another angle. Suppose she is not a married woman with kids who did not cheat on her husband. She is just a normal nice single lady. Will being with someone like this, who is 8 years older than TS for 8 years, (till the lady now is around 40) without any intention for marriage be more acceptable then? Imagine the nicest lady you can think of. I think even the nicest lady will go crazy on TS especially with her youth just wasting away. The insecurities will just build up in her mind as she has no control over her present or future situation. Presently, is she not good enough for TS to marry her? In future, what will happen to her own life (she has no control)? Every time she thinks of these questions, she has no answer. We can still think... aiyah... she cheat on her husband so she deserves it. In actual fact, if this lady is our sister or daughter, we will Gek Sim until mad too. TS, how do you face her friends and family when you meet them?
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If I am TS, I will intro the lady to the bros here and then run as fast as possible. Haha! Scary. The way he describe is like a time bomb waiting to explode. Haha
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