Why do MLs ask for your marital status?

[travelmate4720]

Normally i will tell them the truth. So far if you able to hook them, they know you not toying with the, Willing parties.

[lovecim]

Originally Posted by sicklymicky

Don't read too much into this question.

It is just an ice breaker. Same as "what is your work?", "how old are you?", "have you taken your meal?".

Exactly. Spot on. I was going to say this.

[Habahaba69]

I rather they ask these questions then be quiet and do not ask anything at all la. haha

Take it as small talk, in a way they are also being paid for these. Cannot stand those who do not talk or being very ice lady type

[smellycatt]

Normal.
Just normal small talks.
I usually discuss about her kid with my hands fondling her boobs.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by smellycatt

Normal.
Just normal small talks.
I usually discuss about her kid with my hands fondling her boobs.

Absolutely, we'd be chatting about normal family stuff - exchanging parental experience - while the ML is "stroking". But for me it kills the mood and xdd can go soft

What annoys me are those asking about salary.

[kombust]

i always choose to answer their bull shit questions with bull shit answers. helps to create convo too.

[Huaifeng]

Originally Posted by piichai

After reading the comments and allow me to give my 2 cents worth.

There are many intentions when they asked but 2 things for sure,

1) Unlike local or normal women, considering us as the potential candidate for marriage is not one of them.
2) They care less if your gf or wife will come and find trouble
Most of them are more concern if you are going to part from your $$ to them or not.

We tends to overthink
It is just a simple ice breaker or topic to talk and pass time.

Agree with you on point 2. For some cases, single guys don’t have many responsibilities and easier to part with $$ over a period of time.

[l0v3r]

Just lie that you're single and available. Have a decent paying job. Dun put feelings and don't over commit, always have backup plans.

Have fun!

[Prince Devitt]

Originally Posted by travelmate4720

Normally i will tell them the truth. So far if you able to hook them, they know you not toying with the, Willing parties.

Prince Devitt +51

[WongHinKong]

Originally Posted by navras

Bro, it is normal lah.
客套话to start a conversation unless you expressed that no talking but do work only.

Good one.

My personnel feel is that ML is "gauging " the man ( married man or not), whether they willingly to part their money.
If ML asked me this, I usually replied truthfully " Yes. married with 2 kids" " 1 in Uni, 1 start working"

The rest is either history or part 2.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by l0v3r

Just lie that you're single and available. Have a decent paying job. Dun put feelings and don't over commit, always have backup plans.

Have fun!

Quite easy for them to suss out you are a family man or not from your visiting pattern. Then they won't suggest you to come for massage in the evenings or weekend or holidays. Also won't anyhow call or msg you.

[loneyheart]

Its just way to break the ice ... just like u today not working of have u taken yr meal

My nom ans
R u married ? .... This year not yet
U not working today ? ..... No has a date with u
Have u taken yr meal ? .... No desert 1st
Always started with a good laugh

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Its just way to break the ice ... just like u today not working of have u taken yr meal

My nom ans
R u married ? .... This year not yet
U not working today ? ..... No has a date with u
Have u taken yr meal ? .... No desert 1st
Always started with a good laugh

Expert jiu si expert! Kekeke

[Booker]

Agreed that most ml will use that question to assess the potential of the customer.

Married man =
The ml can probably fill the gap and void left by the wife.
So got chance to kc and see returns.

The man also won’t want to risk exposing each other by going out. So less need for ml to entertain outing / dates request. If anything... come to shop, the “safest”.

Some of course can upgrade to hotel bonk, car bonk or even at her own place to bonk.

Single man =
The ml can also fill the needs for the man and harvest returns. Though depending on the age of the man. Milf ml may lose out to syt ml.

Cos the male got less restrictions, more open to outing... but may not want to be seen going out with a milf ml.

[TankerMack]

usually i will answer no, not married even though i am. I say no, because there was one time ML started asking me details about my wife so since then standard i say NO, not married.

this backfired when this regular ML i used to go to almost every week saw me walking alone. my wife was about 10m ahead of me as she was on the phone. ML appeared out of nowhere and asked, boss how come never see u so long. I told her was busy then i quietly told her my wife is ahead and she moved off fast. my wife was watching all this and she asked who was that, i said she was looking to sign me up for Keppel Electric plan.