How to start a FB （炮友）relationship?

[arl127]

Originally Posted by Continental

Yes from experience. Went in there just for curiosity sake and to test water.

You nailed it perfectly.

[Continental]

Originally Posted by LordVader

You do understand that your experience is probably just 1 out of maybe 3578924 people trying out the app?

Yes, i do perfectly dude. I went in those apps is merely to satisfy my own curiosity and to find out for myself what kind of women are inside there if they are the types that can click with me. I am not bothered about the experience of others. But I was surprised to find out that many of them dislike married men to be in there. They did not want to have anything more to do with me once i told them i am already married. So yes, you are right dude, i am just one of the 3578924 people in there. One man's meat is another man's poison. Ever heard of this proverb ?

Originally Posted by arl127

You nailed it perfectly.

Thank you brother for your support and understanding. Will up you with my humble 6 points later.

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

What does it mean when women ask “ when was your last relationship ?”

It doesn't mean anything.

If a woman ask you this, then you can just play along with her by replying something like "Yeah, I just had one yesterday. It was so awesome, it almost changed my life".

The key is to not take this question too seriously.

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by Continental

One man's meat is another man's poison. Ever heard of this proverb ?

Bro, look at my account age and you will know I'm not some newbie.

"One man's technicolour is another man's desperate existence." - Ever head of the other saying?

What I take umbrage (cannot resist ) to, is you telling your experience and insinuating that this is the de facto standard.

See even 'your proverb' already has another take.
So my point remains, what you experience is just yours so don't make it seem like that is what is happening.

[Continental]

Originally Posted by LordVader

Bro, look at my account age and you will know I'm not some newbie.

"One man's technicolour is another man's desperate existence." - Ever head of the other saying?

What I take umbrage (cannot resist ) to, is you telling your experience and insinuating that this is the de facto standard.

See even 'your proverb' already has another take.
So my point remains, what you experience is just yours so don't make it seem like that is what is happening.

To each their own. Correct, i have already said i am sharing my own experience and not speaking for everyone else. Theirs might be different. Not sure, neither am i concerned about what other people's experiences are, the same or not. Period.

[larue]

Originally Posted by Continental

To each their own. Correct, i have already said i am sharing my own experience and not speaking for everyone else. Theirs might be different. Not sure, neither am i concerned about what other people's experiences are, the same or not. Period.

I’ll wager that you’re

a) fucking unlucky,
b) messaging all the wrong profiles, or
c) not messaging enough profiles, or
d) your profile and/or intro are trash

Unlike real estate where you can change anything except the most important thing of all, here you can change the most important things which are 2,3 and 4.

[Leisuresuit]

Bro... married man here...

I've been on the apps and can tell you this... while there are women who are self righteous and will scold you for being on the app since you are married, your pain with them is only for that flashing moment. Let them go if you will and keep swiping (or buy a sim card and create another account and swipe them again, this time telling them you are not married, and a bunch of other lies till you get them in bed. Although I would personally not go so far. I know from talking to so many women that they actually fall for these things then get angry with all married men on the apps lol).

Keep swiping and you will find some who will chat with you. Singaporean women tend to not show their wild side from the start, so if you start w the sexual talk in the beginning, you will fail. You need to be able to chat about friendly stuff and flow the talk into more personal topics. However don't friendzone yourself by being all clean and decent since the women will rarely proposition you. Guys need to take the lead and the blame for the lady's indiscretions. Also watch your meet up budgets, avoid being an ATM and don't meet for impressive dinners or lunch, just stick to coffee or beers.

Good luck w your hunt.

Originally Posted by Continental

Yes from experience. Went in there just for curiosity sake and to test water.

[KiatWee]

Originally Posted by arl127

You nailed it perfectly.

Does sound like a good plan

[Inku]

Just to share.

I have my fair share of rejects because I'm married and also ladies who don't mind that I am married.
I have had true ONS and also those catfish moments (wah when meet up scare die me).

I think to have a proper FB also need some time invested in it, no woman likes to be just an object for sexual satisfaction, they need attention, care and some form of connection.

Simple things like how's your day? Or well wishes when they are ill goes a long way.
But remember to stop short of going the extra mile, you would want to keep the FB relationship balanced and not send a wrong signal.

Some women may be swayed into romantic thoughts and that will get you into hot soup.
I currently have a FB a few years older than me, she knows I'm married.
We meet once in a while for simple coffee shop meals without any sexual intimacy after, just like normal friends.
Other time we really just meet up and unleash our sexual hunger.
Normal days just usual chatting like friends.

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by Continental

To each their own. Correct, i have already said i am sharing my own experience and not speaking for everyone else. Theirs might be different. Not sure, neither am i concerned about what other people's experiences are, the same or not. Period.

Bro, sharing is all good to me.

However, the last sentence about do not waste time is a bit "Omg my experience is bad so married men's experience is bad too" is what triggered me.

[SammyLee88]

will start in sugarbook and cmb, the people there is more open, you date them out they already know what you mean

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by Inku

Just to share.

I have my fair share of rejects because I'm married and also ladies who don't mind that I am married.
I have had true ONS and also those catfish moments (wah when meet up scare die me).

I think to have a proper FB also need some time invested in it, no woman likes to be just an object for sexual satisfaction, they need attention, care and some form of connection.

Simple things like how's your day? Or well wishes when they are ill goes a long way.
But remember to stop short of going the extra mile, you would want to keep the FB relationship balanced and not send a wrong signal.

Some women may be swayed into romantic thoughts and that will get you into hot soup.
I currently have a FB a few years older than me, she knows I'm married.
We meet once in a while for simple coffee shop meals without any sexual intimacy after, just like normal friends.
Other time we really just meet up and unleash our sexual hunger.
Normal days just usual chatting like friends.

yeah need time to build up relationship, let people has confidence on you first

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by Piledriver

It doesn't mean anything.

If a woman ask you this, then you can just play along with her by replying something like "Yeah, I just had one yesterday. It was so awesome, it almost changed my life".

The key is to not take this question too seriously.

perhaps she just want to know if you are available for a new relationship

[SammyLee88]

other than FB is SB, can ask "do you mind to have night drink together?" Many people can understand

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by larue

Dating apps so many to choose from.

Put status as married and start scoring.

sometimes the stated status cannot believe 100%