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Old 03-11-2021, 11:17 AM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

Don't feel alone TS, bcoz you are not alone in this predicament.

I believe you need to love yourself first before you can truly love others.

By loving yourself does not mean turning into narcissist, it means understand and taking care of your mind, body and soul.
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Old 03-11-2021, 07:41 PM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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Thanks for all the replies. I am close to 40 now, maybe no energy and the emotional resilience to go through all the hassle and drama of chasing gals like the way I did when I was in my 20s/30s. Hence opt for the most easy way out- pay for sex and companionship

Also, I feel that online dating is toxic for men these days. Every gal out there has so many simps/white knights chasing that their expectations are so high now. And they can drop you anytime cos there's always a better guy appearing to woo them.

My experience generally is those gals below 30, they usually won't even reply at all. Even for those 30-35, they are eager to get attached, but still quite stuck up. Always reply one-word, show minimal interest and expect the guy to do all the chasing. The only responsive ones are those above 35, overweight or single mom/divorcee with a lot of baggages

A number of my single frens share the same experience and hence given up on dating, and just to turn to paid sex & companionship like me
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Don't feel alone TS, bcoz you are not alone in this predicament.

I believe you need to love yourself first before you can truly love others.

By loving yourself does not mean turning into narcissist, it means understand and taking care of your mind, body and soul.
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Old 03-11-2021, 10:38 PM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
It's a matter of perspective. All relationships are a form of exchange and all long term relationships involve money.

Given your age (I am mid-40s myself), I think you should think of yourself as being too old to be bothered about what other people think of you. Just do what you want, that makes you happy.

I am now in a relationship with a 22-year old who was born a man. We hold hands and go out like a normal couple. We met when she was a KTV girl working here and we've been together for the last two years. You can say, she has been somewhat of a sugar baby for the last 2 years though I think it is something deeper.

My point being, I don't care what others think. I only know that I am happy with her and I will enjoy every moment, while my cock is still in working condition.

Cheers bro, and all the best.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

no money no honey
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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
You are only a loser if you are over 30 and jobless with a healthy heart and limbs.

I saw many foreign beggars at bedok asking for donations. It's becoming really bad.

There are women out there on dating apps whose waistline are bigger than yours waiting to bang. Don't be hiam
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It's a matter of perspective. All relationships are a form of exchange and all long term relationships involve money.

Given your age (I am mid-40s myself), I think you should think of yourself as being too old to be bothered about what other people think of you. Just do what you want, that makes you happy.

I am now in a relationship with a 22-year old who was born a man. We hold hands and go out like a normal couple. We met when she was a KTV girl working here and we've been together for the last two years. You can say, she has been somewhat of a sugar baby for the last 2 years though I think it is something deeper.

My point being, I don't care what others think. I only know that I am happy with her and I will enjoy every moment, while my cock is still in working condition.

Cheers bro, and all the best.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

keep chase skirt and fail or just pay and whack, .just be happy pay n whack.

Pay n whack n enjoy if dun enjoy and sad also no point

If not die liao say wah regret
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Old 04-11-2021, 05:03 PM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

Depends on what you want bro, if you only want to go for SYT or model lookalike, then be sure that you have deep deep wallet or at least look decent with a great bod.

if you have neither, then maybe can lower your expectations and go for less gorgeous ladies.

At the end of the day, good things, everyone will compete for it, so the one who have more resource will win. You just have to settle for something that is within your means.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

People always hanker for what’s missing in their lives. Try a different approach: learn to love yourself and be grateful. Go Help the less fortunate. 你若盛开,🦋自来!
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

You'll be a bigger loser if you get a GF then tie the knot, more likely to lose at least half your asset
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Old 09-11-2021, 05:52 AM
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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
Er bro, there are so many dating apps now. Everyday swipe right for 30, I'm 1 month you'll swipe right 900.

One of the bro say don't hiam and it's true. Plus if you only want local, tall, pretty and can speak English, with long hair, small waist and c size boobs then ya, it's tough.

If not, I'm short, fat, ugly and poor and yet I still get sex from various women constantly and some if have chance I don't mind them being my gf or wife if I'm single.

Another reply you've is to be confident in yourself. It's true. The best way to be confident is just earn more lah. Earn enough for a studio in town and drive a nice car.

Sg a lot of choices leh. Pinays, indos, Myanmese, viet and Cina all have.

There's tinder, badoo, we chat and so many options.

Loser cuz you lazy and you just want the girl to appear at your door naked and say she likes to suck your cock everyday. Please lah, go learn how to do this properly.

Many bros have gone through the fire. Don't be lazy.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
Stop being a simp and a slave for the abusive pussy.

Do you want to be her investor that spend 1000 SGD on shopping and a carrier that carry the shopping bags while she is walking like a queen and looking at her phone all the time?

Do you want to work hard, buy a nice car, and then open car door for her like a slave while she opens her legs for everyone who has a nice car?

Do you want to carry shopping bags and a baby at the same time while she is walking ahead of you just to show the public that she is a boss?

What do you get in return? Just a pussy. You can get it with a little payment. Why do you want to be a slave? Why do you want to loose half of your asset after having 1 minute argument with her?

DONT BE A VICTIM OF FEMINAZI.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

Well i was like you and then i told myself fk it. Just man up and go fight for what you want. Know your priorities that's the most important.

Lastly, don't be afraid to lose. Remember, when you have nothing, what do you have to lose anyway? Just go all out lor!
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
Well, bro SadLoser, I don't sugarcoat my words...but I guess (and I think you know), yes, you are a loser when it comes to having relationships with women.

It is neither good nor bad, the thing is it really depends on how much importance you deem that to be.

You mentioned you can still afford paid sex or engage a sugarbabe, means you are relatively well off and have no problem whatsoever over your next meal. In this aspect you win quite a lot of people.

Sometimes the right person haven't show up yet (and in come cases she never will), but why lose sleep over it?
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