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Old 19-11-2022, 11:59 AM
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Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

Feeling a little depressed recently. I am married and with kids but this forum taught me that I could invent many possibilities by being single. I feel that I will be happier and Free to enjoy myself much more if I am single. Does anyone feel the same?
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

I'm opposite, single but longing the life of being married.. someone to talk to me on a more personal level, share our happiness and woes with each other, and the free daily sex....
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

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Feeling a little depressed recently. I am married and with kids but this forum taught me that I could invent many possibilities by being single. I feel that I will be happier and Free to enjoy myself much more if I am single. Does anyone feel the same?
It's a common passing thought. The grass always seemed greener on the other side. The only way for you to become single again is to get a divorce. However, the Woman's Charter will rob you of half your assets. You may not have enough money to buy a new house. You will have to pay your by now ex-wife a monthly alimony and your children a monthly child support maintenance fees. You may not get to see your children whenever you want to also, despite getting joint custody.

Life sounds worse than it is now right? So where will you find the money to invent the possibilities that single men have? Better to stay in the marriage but secretly cheong outside without getting caught.

As for feeling depressed, find out what makes you feel depressed and work on the reasons why you are feeling depressed. May be better than trying to escape the depression by changing the scenario (getting divorced and being single again).

Kids are innocent. You bring them into this world. Whatever happens between you and your wife, try to protect them as much as you can. If can stay married, best. At least your children will grow up in a complete family. They don't have to know their parents aren't having a healthy sex life right?
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I'm opposite, single but longing the life of being married.. someone to talk to me on a more personal level, share our happiness and woes with each other, and the free daily sex....
Haha. Do you know that many husbands including me don't get sex from our wives? Yes, the wives share their husbands' happiness and woes, but some are also troublemakers.
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It's a common passing thought. The grass always seemed greener on the other side.
I think you are spot on! The human minds are complex. Although I know what you just said is all true, my heart still wrenching...ouch!

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Although I know what you just said is all true, my still wrenching...ouch!
It's ok. Let me share a SBF secret with you. It's what guys here say 10-20 years ago. It may help you feel better. Really... many guys wrote about this method in the past.

You go market buy a squid. Cut off the head and back of the body. Leave only 5 inches of the middle part. Wrap the middle part of the squid on your penis. Wrap a $50 dollar note around the squid and masterbate. After you cum, you will feel better. Instead of paying a ML $50 to do the same thing, you get to keep your own hard earned money.

What do you do with the cum filled squid? Use it to cook a dish for your wife. You will feel better too.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

Share your wife.

Bring your wife to meet a guy.

Make sure he knows how to approach and escalate.

Ignore all warnings by your wife when he escalate.

If you don't feel jealous or angry that a guy wants to laid your wife. You are a bastard.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

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I'm opposite, single but longing the life of being married.. someone to talk to me on a more personal level, share our happiness and woes with each other, and the free daily sex....
ha married life more depressing bro.
you have one commander at home
you have to justify your overseas travel
you have to tank the cravings
you have to ask the correct questions
you have to share the correct topics
you have to clear search history
you have to tank the moodswings
you have to tank the expenses
you have to tank the holidays without any chance to explore around for ML/FL/MP
you have to tahan the in-laws problem (worst if you kena foreign wife)
your kid also another series of issues with school and emotions


grass greener on the other side ..but in the end.. males more lustful, want the beauty, the sex and all of the random adventures with freedom.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

I love being single again for many reasons.

Not one of them is sex or women.

Get your own life sorted with what you want out of your life before itching for the grass on the other side.

If not, there is no happiness in any grass and grass elsewhere will always look greener after a while.
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It's ok. Let me share a SBF secret with you. It's what guys here say 10-20 years ago. It may help you feel better. Really... many guys wrote about this method in the past.
The person who invented this must be very Bo Liao 😄
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I love being single again for many reasons.

Not one of them is sex or women.
True. So why you like being Single?
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True. So why you like being Single?
I have realised that upon my death, nothing could be more meaningless to me than being remembered as being a great father and/or husband.

I would like to be remembered as someone who set out to achieve a fantastic material outcome for himself, and the people around him by dint of his own ability and effort.

Whether or not I succeed not as material as being known to have tried.

Being unemcumbered by the minutiae of familial duties allows me to put all my energy into that. I don’t want to do the good father/husband thing of sending my children to tuition or whatever or remembering my wife’s birthday.

And while I do go out with women now and then, I know now I will never settle for anyone who expects more, or something different from what I have to offer.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

Just because one is married doesn't mean you get frequent sex.

There are such things as dead bedrooms.
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Re: Married but longing the life of a Bachelor

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It's a common passing thought. The grass always seemed greener on the other side. The only way for you to become single again is to get a divorce. However, the Woman's Charter will rob you of half your assets. You may not have enough money to buy a new house. You will have to pay your by now ex-wife a monthly alimony and your children a monthly child support maintenance fees. You may not get to see your children whenever you want to also, despite getting joint custody.

Life sounds worse than it is now right? So where will you find the money to invent the possibilities that single men have? Better to stay in the marriage but secretly cheong outside without getting caught.

As for feeling depressed, find out what makes you feel depressed and work on the reasons why you are feeling depressed. May be better than trying to escape the depression by changing the scenario (getting divorced and being single again).

Kids are innocent. You bring them into this world. Whatever happens between you and your wife, try to protect them as much as you can. If can stay married, best. At least your children will grow up in a complete family. They don't have to know their parents aren't having a healthy sex life right?
I concur with everything that is being said here. In short the grass is really greener on the other side as indicated by some of the responses here.

My wife travels for work and during this time I go out for some "fun". After a week or so I would however start to miss her presence. My daughter too as well. It's different being at home alone at night, sometimes the mind does wander.

As men we are drawn to sex, and specifically sex with beautiful women which is what this forum is all about. We all come here with certain desires hence glass houses. At the end of the day though - FL / ML / KTV are financial transactions filled with great but ultimately fleeting moments. Fantasy moments are meant to be moments, that's what make fantasies special.

Play hard, play safe and don't get caught. After that go back home and be a good boy.
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Feeling a little depressed recently. I am married and with kids but this forum taught me that I could invent many possibilities by being single. I feel that I will be happier and Free to enjoy myself much more if I am single. Does anyone feel the same?
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I'm opposite, single but longing the life of being married.. someone to talk to me on a more personal level, share our happiness and woes with each other, and the free daily sex....
if u ask me, a lot of people marry for the sake of marriage.
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